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Overcoming Depression

Overcome Depression And Reclaim Your Life

When you are suffering from depression, you may feel like your entire life revolves around managing your negative thoughts and feelings caused by depression. You may be having a sense of worthlessness, hopelessness, and you may think that there isn’t a point in going forward in life.  These thoughts are often accompanied by a feeling of being extremely low. These negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions lead to the diagnosis of depression. Depression is increasingly becoming common, with more than 5% of adults in the world being diagnosed with it.  Having depression can make it difficult for you to feel joy, and can feel like there is no end to these feelings of loneliness, gloom, and sadness. Life can feel monotonous, and can feel like it lacks color and vibrancy. To know more about the symptoms of depression, click here.  No matter how dark or gloomy life may seem when you are experiencing depression, there are ways to overcome depression and manage it. Due to the several studies and consistent research being done on understanding depression, there are now tested ways to work with and manage depression. This article consists of a list of ways through which you help through your depression, and lead a happier and smoother life. Ways To Manage Depression The path to recovery from depression can be challenging. It can be difficult to understand the symptoms, and identify depression in ourselves and others. Even after recognizing these symptoms, there is stigma that is often associated with seeking treatment for depression, despite how common of a mental health condition it is.   This stigma often makes people hesitate to ask for help and look up for resources to manage their depression. Here are some ways that you can improve some of the symptoms of depression you may be experiencing. Understand your depression symptoms: Understanding that depression is a disorder, and not a personal failure or problem on your part is an essential step towards getting better. As you have a condition, it requires support and treatment. You don’t have to go through it all alone. As depression is becoming increasingly common, you can read how others going through depression feel. Understanding your symptoms, and the ways people around you are managing it can give you clarity on what you are dealing with. Listening to people’s stories of those who have overcome depression can also be inspiring and can instill hope within you that it does it get better with time.  Seek professional help: Therapy is an effective tool in understanding the thoughts and negative beliefs that support and prolong the feelings of depression. Therapists help you notice these feelings and create space for the emotions, instead of suppressing or pushing them away. Therapy also helps you uncover and explore the emotions beyond the apparent ones. Sometimes, when you explore depression, you can notice feelings of shame, anger, guilt, and other emotions coming up. Therapy can help you process these complex emotions by dealing with them in a safe space.  Therapists can also help you identify negative thought and feeling patterns that enable depression to stay within your system. Thus, building this awareness helps in developing a deeper understanding of what causes and sustains your depression.  Consider medication: If you feel like your symptoms are too intense, and are affecting personal, work, and social functioning, then you should consider using medications. However, medications for depression should be consumed only under clinical supervision, like a psychiatrist.  Medications for depression can help you manage these symptoms and can make you feel more balanced.  Engage in activities you like to do: One of the main signs of depression is losing interest in doing things you normally do. You may notice that you don’t like following your normal routine or do activities that bring you joy. You may also begin to withdraw from your loved ones. Engaging in joyful activities like talking to friends and loved ones, doing mild exercises, going for a walk, can help even if you are not up to doing them. This is because doing these activities have built in rewards which release feel-good hormones like endorphins into the body once they are done, helping you overcome depression.  Do regular physical activity: Doing mild forms of activities, like slow yoga for even a short span of time like 15 minutes can reduce low mood. Being regular and consistent with taking out a few minutes for mild physical activity can bring a huge difference into your mental health. Mindfulness and meditation: The concept of mindfulness has been around for centuries. Incorporating mindfulness into meditation can bring a huge shift in your mental health. People often have a misconception that mindfulness meditation or meditation in general is to “quieten” the mind. However, mindfulness helps you observe and watch your thoughts and emotions without getting entangled in them.  Since it is a practice, it isn’t something that comes to many people right away. If you are starting out with a new practice like meditation, you can start by taking a course so that you will be doing the course with a group of people motivating you. You can learn more about and register for our 8-Week Mindfulness Meditation Course here.  Or, you can take a small step to simply get started with a guided meditation right away by clicking here.   Having a balanced diet: We refer to our gut as our “second brain.” Our brain and gut communicate constantly, and both are influenced by one another’s actions. As a result, what we put into our bodies ultimately shapes how we think and feel. Depression also alters our appetite levels. If you have an increased appetite, it is best to consume healthy foods, even if you eat often.  Try your best to avoid sugary snacks. Sugary foods can make you feel better momentarily, however it does slow down your digestion, and lower your energy, increase fatigue, and reduce your motivation in the long run. Therefore, try to incorporate more fresh vegetables and fruits

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Feeling gratitude

Cultivating Gratitude

We experience our life in a collection of moments; some moments are big and impactful whereas some are simple and small. Why is it so difficult for us to appreciate the simple things in our lives? –Something as simple as the aromatic smell of an energizing cup of coffee on a sleepy morning, Or the beauty of nature as the trees sway in a light breeze on a sunny day? Most of the time we keep thinking of the things that are not going well for us rather than the ones that are! Have you ever noticed yourself saying things like ‘This is boring!’, ‘She is mean!’, ‘It is hot!’, ‘This is not enough!’, ‘The food is not tasty!’ and so on.If you find yourself doing this, you should know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE! If we look at it logically, we are simply wired to see the negativity and drawbacks, for the sake of survival.  We spend more time and attention on unpleasant things around us. They start to occupy quite a bit of our mind,and over a period of time, we start becoming dissatisfied. To prevent us from reaching this stage of emotional being, we have to make a conscious effort and practice Cultivating Gratitude. One simple and beautiful practice of cultivating gratitude can help to change this habitual nature of our mind. It teaches us to notice and appreciate the things that we are blessed with.  Come, let us begin our practice of cultivating gratitude the correct way. Most of our anger and harshness comes from our excessive judgment against ourselves and our lack of compassion. This video explains why self-compassion is needed. A Practice for Cultivating Gratitude; In this practice, you will make a conscious attempt to remember the good around you. You will try to appreciate it by feeling thankful for it.   Start by closing your eyes and take three deep breaths. All the while try to be mindful of your breathing. It will create some space in your mind and help you to think clearly. Now think about the things that you are glad about. It could be something that happened today or something that is a constant part of your life. It could also be someone in your life; like someone in your family, a pet, a friend or an activity. Whatever it is that makes you happy, take a moment to imagine it. See a picture in your mind’s eye about it. Thank life for giving it to you. Smile gently, and then open your eyes.   Do this for 5 minutes everyday, religiously, to cultivate gratitude and experience a positive impact  in your life! About the author Begin Your Mindfulness Journey Now Browse Our Mindfulness Programs Click here share this blog! read similar blogs Recognising Our Feelings What Does it Mean to ‘Feel’? Our feelings are responsible… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Managing Difficult Thoughts Mindfully Our mind is a powerhouse; from helping us make new… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Benefits Of Mindfulness The Many Benefits Of Mindfulness Benefits Of Mindfulness Mindfulness helps… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 17, 2021 DAY 2: UNDERSTANDING JOY- HAVE YOU STOPPED TO SMELL THE ROSES TODAY? Life is generally viewed as a series of ups and… Read More Inner Space TeamOctober 6, 2014

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Discovering happiness, even if you feel low

DISCOVERING ‘HAPPY’ NEW YEAR, EVEN IF YOU FEEL BLUE

As December sets in, everything around you oozes of cheer, joy and happiness. Daily life seems to get a boost of excitement when you see that preparations for the celebrations have begun all around – be it Christmas, New Year’s or weddings. However, amidst all the December enthusiasm, there may be people who are feeling low, depressed and lonely.

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Positive Role of Social Media

COULD SOCIAL MEDIA PLAY A POSITIVE ROLE IN YOUR TEENAGER’S LIFE?

One of the major concerns that most parents today have is the prominence of social media and instant messaging in their teenager’s daily routine. Parents are genuinely worried that their promising teenager will neglect studies, household activities and while his time away. As psychologists, we understand your concerns. However, despite the much talked about adverse effects of social media, there is also some good news.

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Happiness

A Short Story On Happiness

Here is a special story that shows us how we identify with happiness. Its a short Sufi, Middle-Eastern story taken from here. The Sack Mulla came upon a frowning man walking along the road to town. “What’s wrong?” he asked. The man held up a tattered bag and moaned, “All that I own in this wide world barely fills this miserable, wretched sack.” “Too bad,” said Mulla, and with that, he snatched the bag from the man’s hands and ran down the road with it. Having lost everything, the man burst into tears and, more miserable than before, continued walking. Meanwhile, Mulla quickly ran around the bend and placed the man’s sack in the middle of the road where he would have to come upon it. When the man saw his bag sitting in the road before him, he laughed with joy, and shouted, “My sack! I thought I’d lost you!” Watching through the bushes, Mulla chuckled. “Well, that’s one way to make someone happy!” How To Be Happy? Most people coming to me for therapy obviously come with some immediate concern at hand. However innately they appear to be holding the same question in their hearts as all of you who read this perhaps also do. ” How to be Happy?”. Some part of any counselling process often gets dedicated to helping people identify the happiness that is already there in their lives, in the present, and to experience it for what it is worth. As the story shows, Happiness is not a distant bird somewhere in some bush. It is often perching right upon our own shoulder. Often we fail to recognize it unless it flies away or as in the above case case, gets taken away. I wish all of you who read this a pleasant discovery of this already existing happiness, at least for today. Read Our Free E Book, ‘First Few Steps To Mindfulness’ Join our community now! Click here About the Author This article was written by Sadia Saeed, Chief Counsellor and Founder of Inner Space. This post was consulted & approved by professional therapists practicing online therapy and counseling.  Ask a Therapist If you are interested to know more about anxiety disorders and other mental health topics, ‘Ask A Therapist’ is a platform for you to ask your questions related to Mental Health, Mindfulness & Emotional Well-Being to our team of qualified Therapists. Ask a Therapist Related Blogs Why Am I Feeling Sad? : A Guide On Understanding And Accepting Sadness How To Use Mindfulness During Stressful Situations What is Anxiety?

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Maybe

‘Maybe’- A Zen Story

I just love stories! The role of stories in conveying deeper meanings without appearing like direct instruction is unmatched. In my sessions too, I love citing cases or telling stories.

Zen stories are beautiful, in their simplicity and depth of meaning. Here is a lovely story which characterizes the meanings people attach to all events of life. The way we characterize situations as good or bad for us. It reveals simply the meaninglessness of attaching meanings. Read on and enjoy!

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Why Marriages work despite problems

Why Marriages And Relationships Work Inspite Of Problems

A happy marriage or relationship is where both partners understand each other, love each other unconditionally, communicate effectively and love doing little nothings for each other- so we are told. Those marriages or couples that are not like this are not quite there!

However, we see in our own lives and in lives of those close to us, a number of relationships do not have these qualities. And yet, they last! Some for decades! Ever wondered how is it that without these so assumed ‘basic’ needs, relationships still last?

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focus on the positive

MAKE A CONSCIOUS CHOICE: FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE

Whatever we focus on expands.

As human beings with limited resources of attention, we can only focus on a few things at a time. Naturally, whatever we invest energy and attention in, becomes more important and significant to us. In other words, it gets amplified. The other aspects of the situation are ignored.

Amplification is the process of making something larger and more important than it is, be it thoughts, emotions or experiences. Unfortunately, usually without even consciously realizing, most people focus on the negative aspects of situations. We’re always thinking of what all can go wrong, rather than what can go right. With this mode of thinking, people soon find themselves spiraling downwards into an abyss of anxiety, fear and depression.

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