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Our psychologists and counselors regularly contribute articles to the Inner Space blog sharing their insights and expertise on various subjects pertinent to psychological and emotional health.

Overcoming Depression

Overcome Depression And Reclaim Your Life

When you are suffering from depression, you may feel like your entire life revolves around managing your negative thoughts and feelings caused by depression. You may be having a sense of worthlessness, hopelessness, and you may think that there isn’t a point in going forward in life.  These thoughts are often accompanied by a feeling of being extremely low. These negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions lead to the diagnosis of depression. Depression is increasingly becoming common, with more than 5% of adults in the world being diagnosed with it.  Having depression can make it difficult for you to feel joy, and can feel like there is no end to these feelings of loneliness, gloom, and sadness. Life can feel monotonous, and can feel like it lacks color and vibrancy. To know more about the symptoms of depression, click here.  No matter how dark or gloomy life may seem when you are experiencing depression, there are ways to overcome depression and manage it. Due to the several studies and consistent research being done on understanding depression, there are now tested ways to work with and manage depression. This article consists of a list of ways through which you help through your depression, and lead a happier and smoother life. Ways To Manage Depression The path to recovery from depression can be challenging. It can be difficult to understand the symptoms, and identify depression in ourselves and others. Even after recognizing these symptoms, there is stigma that is often associated with seeking treatment for depression, despite how common of a mental health condition it is.   This stigma often makes people hesitate to ask for help and look up for resources to manage their depression. Here are some ways that you can improve some of the symptoms of depression you may be experiencing. Understand your depression symptoms: Understanding that depression is a disorder, and not a personal failure or problem on your part is an essential step towards getting better. As you have a condition, it requires support and treatment. You don’t have to go through it all alone. As depression is becoming increasingly common, you can read how others going through depression feel. Understanding your symptoms, and the ways people around you are managing it can give you clarity on what you are dealing with. Listening to people’s stories of those who have overcome depression can also be inspiring and can instill hope within you that it does it get better with time.  Seek professional help: Therapy is an effective tool in understanding the thoughts and negative beliefs that support and prolong the feelings of depression. Therapists help you notice these feelings and create space for the emotions, instead of suppressing or pushing them away. Therapy also helps you uncover and explore the emotions beyond the apparent ones. Sometimes, when you explore depression, you can notice feelings of shame, anger, guilt, and other emotions coming up. Therapy can help you process these complex emotions by dealing with them in a safe space.  Therapists can also help you identify negative thought and feeling patterns that enable depression to stay within your system. Thus, building this awareness helps in developing a deeper understanding of what causes and sustains your depression.  Consider medication: If you feel like your symptoms are too intense, and are affecting personal, work, and social functioning, then you should consider using medications. However, medications for depression should be consumed only under clinical supervision, like a psychiatrist.  Medications for depression can help you manage these symptoms and can make you feel more balanced.  Engage in activities you like to do: One of the main signs of depression is losing interest in doing things you normally do. You may notice that you don’t like following your normal routine or do activities that bring you joy. You may also begin to withdraw from your loved ones. Engaging in joyful activities like talking to friends and loved ones, doing mild exercises, going for a walk, can help even if you are not up to doing them. This is because doing these activities have built in rewards which release feel-good hormones like endorphins into the body once they are done, helping you overcome depression.  Do regular physical activity: Doing mild forms of activities, like slow yoga for even a short span of time like 15 minutes can reduce low mood. Being regular and consistent with taking out a few minutes for mild physical activity can bring a huge difference into your mental health. Mindfulness and meditation: The concept of mindfulness has been around for centuries. Incorporating mindfulness into meditation can bring a huge shift in your mental health. People often have a misconception that mindfulness meditation or meditation in general is to “quieten” the mind. However, mindfulness helps you observe and watch your thoughts and emotions without getting entangled in them.  Since it is a practice, it isn’t something that comes to many people right away. If you are starting out with a new practice like meditation, you can start by taking a course so that you will be doing the course with a group of people motivating you. You can learn more about and register for our 8-Week Mindfulness Meditation Course here.  Or, you can take a small step to simply get started with a guided meditation right away by clicking here.   Having a balanced diet: We refer to our gut as our “second brain.” Our brain and gut communicate constantly, and both are influenced by one another’s actions. As a result, what we put into our bodies ultimately shapes how we think and feel. Depression also alters our appetite levels. If you have an increased appetite, it is best to consume healthy foods, even if you eat often.  Try your best to avoid sugary snacks. Sugary foods can make you feel better momentarily, however it does slow down your digestion, and lower your energy, increase fatigue, and reduce your motivation in the long run. Therefore, try to incorporate more fresh vegetables and fruits

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Individual Counseling Vs Couples Counseling: What Do I Choose?

The decision to take up counseling can be confusing. Choosing the right therapist can be difficult, as there are different forms of therapy available around us. In general, all forms of counselling focus on working with personal and emotional concerns, with a counselor, or therapist. Counseling is a process that can be used by everyone, from children, couples, teens, to young and older adults. Since counseling caters to a wide range of people, it can be tough to choose a type of counseling that is structured according to your needs. Therefore, it is important to understand what each type of counseling is. This awareness can help your decision-making process smoother.  In this article, we will be looking at two common types of counseling —  Couples Counseling Vs Individual Counseling, and what makes them different from each other.  What is Couples Counseling? Couples Therapy is known by many names. It is also known as couples counselling, premarital counseling, or marriage counselling. Couples therapy can be used by both married and unmarried partners. At Innerspace we offer Pre-marital, and Marriage Counseling for couples.  While being in a relationship, couples are bound to go through numerous difficulties. Couples counseling helps in resolving such issues between partners. Couples Counselors tackle issues between couples such as:  Trouble getting along with your partner Communication Problems Intimacy Issues Financial Issues Managing needs and expectations in relationships The main goals of couples therapy are to: Improve the quality of the relationship Work on current and future issues Learn healthy communication patterns Become closer and learn more about each other Couples therapy usually involves two phases. Initially, the partners meet the therapist individually and then, together. Individual sessions help the therapist understand each partner’s concerns better. If you would like to learn more about how couples therapy works and its process, click here. Counseling is a process that equips you with skills to tackle certain difficult areas of life. Similarly, for couples counseling, you and your partner will learn certain skills to collaboratively manage your issues. Some Important skills you will be learning from Couples Counseling are: Improve how you communicate with your partner Get a better understanding of your partner’s needs Learn ways to manage conflicts Have a positive mindset about the relationship Relationship counselors use a variety of techniques for you to build a stronger relationship with your partner At Inner Space, we help couples with their issues using different techniques, like Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Mindfulness, and others. If you would like to learn more Couples Counseling at Inner Space, please click on the following links: Marriage Counseling Premarital Counseling Contact Us Counseling is a process that can help you learn more about yourself and your relationships. Our Counselors are trained to help you with a wide range of concerns. If you are interested to schedule an appointment with us, please click the link below. Book an Appointment What is Individual Counseling? While couple counseling focuses on difficulties between partners, Individual Therapy involves meeting a therapist to discuss your personal issues. In Individual Counseling, the main goal is to help you manage emotional issues, relationships, life changes, stress, and anxiety.  The counseling sessions occur weekly or as often as needed. Each session can be 50-60 minutes long. Counselors practicing individual therapy pays attention to your patterns and less on others. Their primary focus is understanding your patterns, thoughts, feelings, and needs, and collaboratively working on it to resolve your concerns.  Our therapists at Inner Space are trained in a wide range of therapies. Some of the many techniques we use in our practice are Mindfulness Based Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Client Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.  If you would like to learn more about Online Counseling at Inner Space Key Differences Between Individual Counseling Vs Couples Counseling There are large differences between Individual Counseling vs Couples Counseling. Here are some of the main differences between them: Individual Counseling: Includes sessions with the client alone  Focuses on emotional issues, unhelpful patterns of thinking and feeling, underlying unhelpful patterns of thinking and feeling, stress, major life changes, relationships and other concerns Understands the past and present patterns of the client. Helps clients manage issues by themselves  Couples Counseling: Includes sessions with the couple together and separately with each partner Focuses on improving the relationship and reducing conflicts Works on the issues between the partners, and less on the individual Helps partners become closer, and better at communicating with each other  Should I Choose Individual or Couples Therapy? If you are in a relationship, and confused about choosing which type of counseling to choose, try to look into what you expect from your counseling. For instance, if you want to focus on improving your relationship by addressing your individual patterns, behaviors, and emotions, you can opt for individual counseling.  However, if your main aim is to work on patterns within your relationship and its dynamics, and if you are interested to work on improving the relationship collaboratively, you can opt for couples counselling.  If you are still unsure of which counseling you should go for, it can also be a good idea to consult with your counselor. By understanding what you are seeking help for, they can help you guide what type of counseling would be more appropriate for you and your goals.  Frequently Asked Questions How can Psychological counseling help me? Psychological Counseling encourages open and honest dialogue about issues that cause you distress. Through your relationship with your therapist, you’ll work to identify and understand how these stressors are impacting your life, and learn ways to cope with them. How do I choose between Individual Counseling vs Couples Counseling? To choose the right form of therapy, you must first understand what you want help for. If you have personal concerns like: Stress Anxiety Depression Trauma Self-confidence Issues You should think of choosing individual counseling.  If your concern involves improving your relationship with your partner, then Couples Therapy is a better fit for you.  Couples Therapy needs both the partners to be involved to

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How To Choose The Right Online Counselor For Your Needs

Online counseling is a service that addresses mental health issues and is provided via video call, chat, phone, or email. Today, psychological support and counseling are much easier to acquire than before. Location used to be important, but those days are long gone. Nowadays, many licensed counselors and therapists have an online presence, making it simple and comfortable for you to find treatment within the comfort of your home. Like any in-person therapy, online counseling focuses on helping you acknowledge, understand, and gradually change the way you perceive thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that affect your mental health. It provides you with an opportunity to talk and interact in a setting that’s more conducive and convenient than visiting a therapist’s office. Factors To Consider While Selecting A Right Online Counselor or Therapist Let’s look at some factors you need to consider when selecting a right online counselor or therapist. Determine your needs – Understand what you intend to gain from therapy. The clearer your mind is regarding your therapy goals, the easier it will be to review your progress. This will also assist you in determining whether you can benefit the most from therapy. For instance, you might need help addressing a specific mental health concern. Or you might want to voice your worries and talk about something that’s been bothering you for a while now. Whatever the reason, you can communicate with an online counselor and ensure these concerns are addressed in the session. Assess your compatibility with potential counselors – If you’re transitioning from in-person to online therapy, it’s better to keep certain things in mind. You might not succeed in finding the right online counselor on your first try. That’s totally okay! Going through a few counselors before settling on the right professional is always better than working with someone who doesn’t understand your mental health needs. For instance, would you prefer interacting with someone of the same gender? Or would you be more comfortable talking to someone who is older, younger, or more or less your age? Something that you may also want to consider is sexual orientation. There are many counselors who are queer affirmative and offer pride counseling online. Thus, look for a counselor whose background is aligned with your therapy goals to make this process easier. Schedule an initial consultation – When doubts linger about how online counseling works, you’ll probably have questions and concerns about the whole process. Scheduling an initial consultation with an online counselor is a wonderful way to get your questions answered and have a general understanding of how the process works. Some questions that come up during consultation include: What does an online session look and feel like? How long will you be receiving therapy online? How much does an online session cost? What are the cancellation policies and steps for rescheduling a session? An online counselor’s ability to assist you with your emotional turmoil can be determined after a quick discussion of the problems and symptoms you’re currently dealing with. As a result, you have more clarity and are prepared for your online counseling sessions. Scheduling and availability – Online counseling is a good choice if your schedule is unpredictable. To make it convenient for you both, you might wish to find out your online counselor’s availability and schedule. You can select a weekend session or probably after-work online sessions, depending on how busy your day is. For instance, some people may prioritise weekly sessions, while others may prefer to only attend a few sessions each month. Review counselor profile – Counselors and therapists do have an online presence. By reading their bio, you can get a sense of their values and ethics, along with how they intend to support you in therapy by being genuine, empathetic, and understanding. A strong therapeutic relationship can be built between you and your counselor by working cohesively to make you feel like you can trust them. Other things you may get to know by accessing their profile are if your online counselor is multilingual, if they work with certain demographics, their area of expertise, and whether they are trauma-informed. Credentials and qualifications – One needs to have a minimum Master of Arts or MSc in Applied Clinical or Counseling Psychology for them to qualify as your counselor or therapist. The course includes internships in hospitals, mental health clinics, schools, and NGOs, along with dissertation and research work for them to complete in order to receive their respective degrees. Privacy concern – Mental health professionals practise complete and utmost confidentiality with regard to your online sessions. A client’s participation in therapy as well as its contents are both confidential. Your identity as a client is also protected when an online counselor: Does not disclose your personal information through email or text Does not acknowledge you, the client, first outside of a therapeutic setting Does not divulge session information to a third party without your consent So, what you say stays in the session. But, there’s an exception to this. Counselors can break confidentiality in some circumstances when: There’s a threat to your life, or someone’s trying to physically harm you You’re a danger to someone’s well-being or intend to assault them, and You’re a threat to yourself or have thoughts of self-harm In situations like these, your online counselor will notify your emergency contact, who can help ensure you are safe and seek hospitalization if required. Session length – An online session is booked for an hour. However, a segment of time known as the ‘therapeutic hour’ can range from 40 to 55 minutes. That’s when your online session takes place. During extra time, the counselor takes notes, goes over key elements that were discussed, gives homework, and schedules an appointment for your next session. Depending on the type of mental health service you’re receiving, your online counselor will give you an idea of the length of your session. Be prepared to put in efforts: In order to manage your emotional

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Online Counseling for Couples: How It Works and Why It Can Be Effective

Have you been considering couples counseling, but you are confused about it’s process, and all that it entails? There are a various types of therapy available that address different concerns of individuals, families, and couples. Moreover, there are a variety of therapeutic approaches or techniques that therapists use while interacting with clients. This makes it confusing and difficult while choosing the right therapist, and the type of therapy for you. In this article, we specifically cover online couples counseling. Telecounseling or Online Counseling for couples is conducted with the help of the internet, over video call. It is an effective and accessible option for everyone who wishes to go for therapy. Online Counseling can be a great option for couples as it provides a safe space to speak about your concerns from the comfort of your home. The common concerns that Online Couples and Relationship Counseling can help you with are communication issues, troubles with intimacy, resolving conflicts, and many more. At Inner Space, we offer our counseling services online which includes couples counseling. Challenges That Can Be Addressed Through Online Counseling for Couples A relationship is a shared experience that two individuals go through. As two people move through a relationship, it is common to have conflicts and misunderstandings. Conflicts may bring up various painful feelings and both the partners may become defensive, aggressive, or emotional. Sometimes, the smaller unresolved issues and feelings can pile up over time and turn into larger conflicts. This can create distance between you and your partner. It can also result in feeling dissatisfied, unheard, or unloved by your partner. As the two people involved in a relationship are completely unique, you may have different needs and expectations from your partner and the relationship. Both the partners in the relationship may have their own perspectives and beliefs that they have learned from their childhood. By not addressing these differences, you may begin to resent your partner over time, and it can create more chances for conflict in the relationship. Relationships are an important and enriching part of our lives. We seek love, companionship, and support from our relationships. But, relationship issues when left unattended can bring a lot of disappointment and pain in both the partner’s lives. It may feel like it is impossible to know what your partner really wants. This can bring a lot of confusion in the relationship. It can make you feel disappointed and helpless. Contact Us For Online Counseling For Couples Couples Counseling can be a great opportunity for you to work towards creating a supportive, healthy, and loving relationship. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Why Online Counseling For Couples Can Be Effective Couples Therapy works on the notion that every individual is unique, even when they are in a relationship. Each partner functions, thinks, and behaves differently from the other partner. Therapists can provide you with an unbiased perspective on what is really happening in the relationship. A counselor can give you a supportive, non-judgemental view on the patterns, relationship dynamics and issues in the relationship. Couples Counselors are trained to notice how each of your patterns, expectations, and tendencies could be negatively impacting the relationship. They can guide you on how to learn more about yourself and your partner. Sometimes, a lot of thoughts and feelings when unexpressed can cause pain and resentment later. Couples Counseling can help you improve how you communicate your needs and expectations with each other. They can also help you manage any overwhelming feelings that come during conflicts. Going for couples counseling can be an effective and  valuable addition to your relationship. It helps both the partners become more aware of their patterns, emotions, and ways how they handle conflict. It also helps you develop a new perspective on the relationship and your partner. The Benefits Of Having An Online Counseling For Couples There are multiple benefits of choosing an online couples counseling session. Privacy: Online counseling makes sure that all your personal information and concerns you share with the therapist remains confidential. Convenience: You will get to choose a time of the day or week that is most convenient for you and your therapist. Flexibility: Scheduling and rescheduling sessions are easier with online counseling. You can choose timings that are right for you and your partner. Accessibility: You can access counseling wherever you are on the globe. Wider range of options: Choosing online therapy opens you up to more options for therapists. This can help you find therapists that are suited for you and your partner. How Does Online Couples Counseling Work? Online relationship counseling includes separate sessions with each partner, and sessions together. You can attend these sessions online with your partner, wherever you are on the globe. Our counselors usually conduct individual sessions first to learn more about the issue from the perspective of each partner. The counselor helps both you and your partner identify the underlying patterns of thinking and feeling, areas of conflict, and issues in communication that lead to problems and work on resolving them. Couples Counseling can help you: Improve communication skills. Become better at understanding yourself and your partner. Learn coping strategies that are useful to manage conflicts. Develop a stronger bond and obtain a positive outlook towards the future of the relationship. Couples therapy can be used by both married and unmarried couples. Therapy for married couples is called Marital or Marriage Counseling. For unmarried couples, the counseling is called Premarital Counseling. At Inner Space, we offer both Marital and Premarital counseling for couples facing various personal and interpersonal issues in the relationship. If you would like to learn more about our Relationship Counseling Services, please click on the following links: Marriage Counseling Premarital Counseling While marriage counselling online can be a great option for couples who are opting for therapy, it may not be the right fit for you if: If you or your partner are suffering from severe mental health issues, in-person counseling would be more suitable for you. If you or your partner

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Psychological Counseling – benefits, process and how it works

Mental health is essential for our overall well-being, and when we struggle emotionally, it can affect every aspect of our lives. Psychological counseling is an effective process that can help individuals improve their mental health, cope with life’s challenges, and achieve personal growth. This article provides an overview of psychological counseling, including its benefits, how it works, and what individuals can expect when seeking counseling services. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, facing difficult life transitions, or seeking personal growth, psychological counseling can help you navigate your challenges and build a more fulfilling and satisfying life. What is Psychological Counseling? Psychological counseling is an effective process that can be used by any individual to improve their mental health and well-being, by working collaboratively with a qualified counselor or a psychologist. The process involves building a strong therapeutic relationship where the person feels comfortable and safe sharing their thoughts and feelings.  To establish this therapeutic relationship, counselors are fully present with their clients using empathy and deep listening skills. Counseling is effective when clients feel safe, understood, respected, and accepted without judgment. Counselors use empirically supported interventions and specialized interpersonal skills to facilitate change and empower clients. These interventions can range from cognitive-behavioral therapy to mindfulness-based interventions and many more. The goal is to help clients develop the skills and insights they need to address their challenges.  Contact Us If you’re struggling emotionally and feel stuck, counseling can be valuable in helping you navigate through your difficulties. We are here to help you. Book an Appointment Benefits of Counseling and Therapy Psychological counseling can be a transformative experience for individuals seeking to improve their mental health and overall well-being. Whether someone is struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, facing difficult life transitions, or experiencing difficulties in relationships, counseling can create a safe and supportive environment to help them deepen their awareness and cope with their difficulties. The goal of counseling is to support individuals on their journey towards personal growth, healing, and a more fulfilling life, with the guidance and expertise of a trained counselor. Going through a difficult patch? We are here for you with online therapy & counseling services. Feel heard & supported by our compassionate and qualified psychologists and therapists. Related Read: Key Benefits Of Online Therapy The changes facilitated by psychological counseling include: Change in Perspective & New Insights: Psychological counseling can help individuals see things in a new way. By talking with a trained counselor, individuals can better understand their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This understanding can help individuals learn new ways to cope with challenges and gain new insights of themselves and their situation.   Enhanced capacity to tolerate and regulate feelings: Psychological Counseling can help individuals become better at recognizing, understanding, and managing their emotions.  Counseling can provide a safe space where individuals can talk about their emotions without being judged. This can help individuals become more aware of their feelings and learn to better understand why they feel the way they do. By gaining insight into their emotions, individuals can develop strategies to manage them in a more effective way. Counseling can help individuals feel more emotionally balanced, resilient, and improve their overall well-being.   New Actions and Behaviours: Counseling can help in understanding why you might be stuck in a specific pattern of behavior, and learn new, healthier ways to interact with yourself and the world around you. This can lead to a change in your responses and build better relationships with self and others. As you develop new behaviors, you may find that you experience greater freedom and fulfillment. You may also feel more confident and empowered to make healthier shifts. How Does the Psychological Counseling Process Work? A counselor’s primary goal is to provide a safe and supportive environment for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. They understand that seeking psychological counseling can be a difficult decision, and they strive to create an accepting atmosphere where clients feel comfortable sharing their concerns. During the initial session, the counselor asks clients questions about their background, history, and current issues. This information helps the counselor develop a personalized treatment plan that is tailored to the client’s specific needs and goals. Throughout the counseling process, the counselor works collaboratively with the client to help them gain insight into their issues and develop healthy ways of coping. In subsequent sessions, the counselor continues to explore the client’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in greater depth. They may use a variety of techniques and interventions to help clients better understand their experiences and develop new skills for managing them. The duration of psychological counseling varies depending on the client’s needs. Related Read: How To Choose The Right Online Counselor For Your Needs Online Counseling For Couples Dealing with Anger Mindfully Frequently Asked Questions How can Psychological counseling help me? Psychological Counseling encourages open and honest dialogue about issues that cause you distress. Through your relationship with your therapist, you’ll work to identify and understand how these stressors are impacting your life, and learn ways to cope with them. What should I expect from my first counseling session? Your first session with the therapist will be different from future visits. The initial visit is a period for you and your therapist to get to know each other and get an idea of how to proceed. Future sessions will be more therapeutic in nature. When is Psychological Counseling required? Psychological counseling is needed if you’re experiencing distress, struggling with a mental health condition, having difficulty coping with life changes or stressors, or struggling in relationships. About the Author This article was written by the Inner Space team; consulted & approved by professional therapists practicing online therapy and mindfulness Ask a Therapist ‘Ask A Therapist’ is a free platform to ask your questions related to mental health & emotional well-being to our team of qualified therapists. You can explore some previously answered questions here. Ask Now Related Blogs How Developmental Trauma

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How to Practice Mindfulness Meditation

What is mindfulness meditation? Mindfulness is a beautiful practice that helps us become rooted in life. It involves getting our minds back to the present and paying attention to the life that is unfolding right now within and around us.  This practice of mindfulness is one of compassion and gentleness. It is a way of bringing the mind to the present without being forceful towards it, without an achievement mindset, it is about being deliberate and choosing consciously with a certain degree of awareness. By being conscious and aware, we can change the reactive and unhelpful habit patterns that have been conditioned within us over the years. You can start practicing  mindfulness through simple meditation practices that you an do throughout the day. Additionally, it is highly recommended that you start a meditation practice for at least a few minutes a day.  Mindfulness and meditation are often used interchangeably, however it is essential to know that ‘Mindfulness’ is about being in the present and noticing what is occurring within and outside us. ‘Meditation’ is a formal practice that helps us realize the patterns of our mind, practice mindfulness and achieve more focus and centredness. So, mindfulness meditation is an experiential practice that focuses on deeply connecting with your mind. It is a way to settle down enough to actually experience the workings of your mind and to gain insights. It is only when we can sit quietly attempting to concentrate the mind that we can observe how it actually works.  Steps to practice mindfulness meditation 1) Take a seat. Find a place to sit that feels calm and quiet to you. 2) Set a time limit.  3) Notice your body. Sit in a comfortable, stable position. Let the body be relaxed but the spine be straight so that you can maintain both alertness and relaxation at the same time. 4) Bring attention to your breath. Pay attention to each breath as you inhale and exhale. 5) If you can feel your mind wandering, bring your attention back to your breath. 6) Be kind to your wandering mind. Don’t be too harsh on yourself if you find it difficult to not get lost in thought. Continual practice will make it easier over time. 7) Close with kindness. When you’re ready, gently lift your gaze (if your eyes are closed, open them). Take a moment and notice your environment. Notice how your body feels right now. Notice your thoughts and emotions. That’s it! Here is a link for a guided meditation that can help you start your practice right away: Benefits of mindfulness meditation Mindfulness helps you connect with a direct experience of the present. A few common benefits of mindfulness involve healing stress, addiction, pain, anxiety and several other afflictions. This is because being mindful opens people towards being receptive to self compassion, joy, love, positivity and can nurture the brain to be stronger and healthier. A few weeks of practicing mindfulness has been shown to be advantageous on a physical, psychological and social level. Some of the benefits of mindfulness include: Greatly Reduces Stress: Mindfulness helps your brain to connect with the areas in your system that are stressed, and allows those areas to relax and heal. Your Immunity Improves: Mindfulness meditation can boost the immune system thereby providing your body the ability to fight physical illness. It also is known to lower blood pressure. You Feel More Positive: Mindfulness increases the amount of positive emotions felt; improves decision making abilities and helps to manage depression and anxiety. Your Brain Functioning Improves: The brain itself benefits from mindfulness; Studies showing that density of gray matter in the brain increases. This in turn helps stimulate areas connected to learning, empathy, regulation of emotions and memory You Become More Compassionate: Mindfulness opens you up emotionally. It helps to cultivate a non-judgmental attitude towards yourself and others. This over a period of time makes you more compassionate Improves Your Relationships: Relationships are enhanced by mindfulness as each person is able to stay more relaxed which in turn makes them understanding and accepting Improves Parenting Skills: Mindfulness helps decrease anxiety and stress in parents and allows for a more fear-free, compassionate and joyful relationship with their children Eating Mindfully Keeps You Fit: Obesity can be controlled by mindfulness when the person starts eating in a mindful manner by paying attention to all the senses, staying conscious of their eating habits. Children Benefit Too: Children who are taught to be mindful at school tend to have fewer behavioral problems, show better memory and academic performance, and are happier Here is an article that curates research done on mindfulness and shows its impact in personal and professional life:  To learn more about the benefits of mindfulness, click here. Conclusion Mindfulness meditation practice, such as participating in an online meditation course, can greatly assist in understanding yourself, leading you toward a path of conscious relaxation. If you are just getting started with mindfulness meditation it is important to remember that achieving mindfulness is not the main goal, it is a journey to being in the present moment. Mindfulness meditation may seem intimidating in the beginning, although if you just give it a few minutes everyday you can cultivate a habit which will reap significant benefits to your physical and mental health. If you are looking to start your mindfulness journey or join a mindfulness community, consider enrolling in our online meditation course to receive structured guidance and support. We have a host of free resources as well as paid courses depending on what you are ready for. Start with getting connected to us.  ABOUT THE AUTHOR Mindfulness at work is just as important.Inner Space conducts mindfulness training workshops based on the needs of your organization. Browse through our ‘Corporate Mindfulness Programs’ page to know more. Click here

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 The Key Benefits of Online Therapy

Benefits of Online Therapy: Is Online Therapy Right for you? Traditional Therapy is the process of meeting with a mental health expert -a counselor or therapist, to address and treat your emotional and mental health concerns. Having a conversation with a professional can help you overcome obstacles in your life, gain awareness of the root cause of your problems to manage symptoms and heal.  Online therapy is nothing but  a digitized version of traditional therapy. The presence of online therapy is becoming increasingly common through the years and that raises the question — is online therapy right for you? What is online therapy? Online therapy in the simplest sense of the word is the provision of mental health services and support  through the internet.  Generally these services are provided through live video chat, messaging apps, email, or over the phone. This practice has grown rapidly popular since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, allowing patients to connect with a qualified therapist from the safety and comfort of their own home. With something as intimate and personal as mental health, some people might feel more comfortable talking about their feelings, personal issues, and goals over the internet rather than face to face. Patients can experience therapy from the comfort of their home and some online counselors are more likely to offer their therapy services outside of traditional business hours. The convenience and accessibility allows for more people to seek therapy and for therapists to expand their practice and offerings Benefits of online therapy There are numerous benefits to opting for online therapy, and the most common ones are; Convenience Since the location of your therapy session will be a virtual meeting, you wouldn’t need to travel to a physical location. You can schedule your sessions with flexibility, to fit into your daily routine uncomplicatedly. You will have the ability to receive therapy from anywhere in the world, as long as you have an internet connection. Increased access to therapists and treatment options You will be able to find a therapist who specializes in specific issues or utilizes specific treatment modalities which suit your needs best. If you are in a location where in-person options for therapy are limited, you can access the therapy online. Anonymity and privacy You will have the ability to maintain privacy and anonymity during sessions. You can opt to use a pseudonym or remain anonymous. A trusted, professional online therapist will maintain client privacy. Cost effectiveness Since the therapy sessions are online, they can cost less than in-person therapy. Comfortable and familiar environment You will have the ability to receive therapy in a comfortable and familiar setting, like your home. You can choose to use video or audio-only sessions. Read Also: Manage Hypertension With Mindfulness   Online therapy isn’t right for everyone There are still some situations where in-person therapy is preferable to online therapy. If you’re currently suffering from a severe mental illness like schizophrenia or clinical depression, in-person sessions with a therapist are recommended. Conclusion The key to any type of therapy—online or in-person, is to find the correct therapist for you. Their qualifications, experience, and philosophy are important factors to consider, but it is also the relationship you develop with the therapist that is important because it will often define the success of your therapy.  You don’t have to be dealing with a diagnosed mental health issue such as depression or anxiety to benefit from therapy. Even if you’re facing everyday concerns like overwhelming stress, low self-esteem, or trouble sleeping, the right therapist can provide expert support and guidance and help induce positive changes in you. Finding the right online therapist can take some time and effort, so don’t be afraid to ask questions and read reviews. An online therapist will help you heal, recover, and grow so it’s important to choose someone who makes you feel understood, supported, and cared about. You should be able to trust this person enough to talk comfortably about personal and often difficult subjects —to be honest about what you’re thinking and feeling. About the author Browse through our Online therapy & Counseling page. Understand the Inner Space approach to therapy and get to know our team of professional therapists & counselors. Start your journey of mental well-being now. Click here share this blog! read similar blogs EMOTIONAL EATING: DO YOU EAT TO FEEL BETTER? 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Managing Emotions

Managing Emotions Using Support And Movement

Managing emotions mindfully Have you ever been told you were acting unreasonably or you blew things out of proportion? We are taught to express our happy feelings but at the same time we are told to suppress feelings of anger or sadness. From our childhood we are asked to stop crying and smile more, mostly because that is believed to be socially acceptable behavior. Naturally, managing emotions seems like a difficult task. How can we understand how to manage emotions if we have never even been allowed to express them?  To be able to manage our emotions we first need to let ourselves feel and embrace them. It is important to fully experience our emotions. Only when we experience them, can we begin to support them.  So how do we experience our emotions in a way that helps us to cope better?  Here are two effective ways for you to try and support yourself through overwhelming emotions and help you understand it. Make supportive movements You can try to support your emotions by letting your body express it through movements. These movements require you to really listen to your body.  What does your body want to do? Move it the way that feels intuitively right for you. Keep the movements gentle and slow giving yourself ample time and space to feel the effects of the movement. For example, anger is a high-energy emotion, allowing your arms and legs to move may help. Boredom tends to express itself as restlessness.  Repeatedly remind yourself to keep your movements slow and mindful. Do them to create support for the overwhelming feelings. Manage Intense Emotions. Incorporate Mindfulness into your Daily Life Understand and Practice it through our Free Mindfulness Videos Click here 2.Use touch as support Now, once you make these supportive movements, sit down in a relaxed manner. Remember, support means listening to the body and helping it to relax.  Now, take some deep breaths. Check where you can place a hand on your body to help it feel supported. Just to explore, keep your hand on your chest. Take a few seconds to sense how that feels.  See if that feels supportive. Do you feel like moving your hand higher or lower? Go ahead and do whatever feels right.  Similarly, you could explore by keeping a hand on your belly, on the top of your head or on your forehead.  Each time you support yourself through touch, stay that way to feel the support deeply for a few seconds. Only when you take in support deeply will your emotions respond and soften. Remind yourself that whatever you are feeling is your reality for now and in some time, the feeling will pass away. No emotion stays forever. It may return, but each time it does, you have the steps to work with it wisely and in a friendly way.  Working with your emotions like this when it arises and continuing to practice mindfulness regularly, will help you notice your experiences managing emotions will become less intense or difficult over time. Be patient and kind to your emotions, your experiences and yourself! ABOUT THE AUTHOR SHARE THE BLOG! READ SIMILAR BLOGS Dealing with Anger Mindfully ‘DEALING WITH ANGER’ Have you ever gotten angry at your… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Recognising Our Feelings What Does it Mean to ‘Feel’? Our feelings are responsible… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 The Neuroscience Behind Mindfulness The Neuroscience Behind Mindfulness Mindfulness as a practice for well-being… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 11, 2021 EMOTIONAL HEALING: GETTING IN TOUCH WITH EMOTIONS IN THE BODY I feel so worried I’m extremely sad today I’m very… Read More Inner Space TeamMarch 7, 2015

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Body Image Difficulties

Working Through Body Image Difficulties Mindfully

What are Body Image Difficulties? How many times have you found yourself scrolling through Instagram and feeling like you aren’t good enough?  You may feel your nose is fat, lips are too thin, eyes aren’t pretty, or that you are simply not fitting into the  ideal body type. Social Media can Negatively affect Body Image -this is where our insecurities stem from to give rise to body image difficulties. However it is important to remember that the images we see online are very different from reality. It’s not just social media though, you could also find that you are comparing yourself to the people in your life. It may be your siblings, parents, friends or colleagues. But don’t worry, you are not alone! It is important for you to create the space to understand yourself. Being kind towards your feelings and experiences is a simple first step toward dealing with body image difficulties. We can only appreciate ourselves when we take the time and space to understand ourselves. Let’s do an activity for you to create a kind of friendship towards your body and change the way you view yourself.  A Practice To Appreciate Your Body In this activity you will have to bring focus to the smaller sections of your body- thanking and appreciating it for what it does for you. Before starting your practice sit on a chair or the ground comfortably, with your eyes closed. Start by taking 5–10 deep breaths. Each time you breathe in, remember it is helping you to stay alive and well. Every time you breathe out, smile and relax your body a little. Now slowly bring your attention to the area covered by your hair. Your brain is one of the most vital organs in your body, and is working all the time. Appreciate what all it does for you. Smile at it lovingly and say, ‘I thank you for taking care of me every day.’ Now, stay connected, feeling the sensations in your face for a few seconds.  Similarly, turn your full attention to your face and gradually move your attention to your whole front torso, from your neck to your chest and belly followed by your back working your way up to the seat of the body and your legs. Once you have finished appreciating and thanking your entire body, take your attention to that one aspect of your body that disturbs you the most. Focus your full attention on that one aspect.  Now simply remind yourself again how your body works tirelessly to keep you well and functional. Is it not unfair to be upset about something so minor? Smile at that aspect of your body and say, ‘I am sorry, I have not loved you enough. I am sorry I have been unkind to you by disliking you. I will try to remember how kind my body is to me.’ Now smile at that part and stay connected to it, watching the sensations for a few seconds. End your practice by taking a few deep breaths, smiling and relaxing every time you breathe out. This is a beautiful way to mindfully learn to love and appreciate yourself and deal with body image difficulties. When you focus on remembering the wonderful ways in which your body supports you every day, even without you caring much for it, you will gradually start to love your body. Your body will also respond by healing and becoming healthier. Are You Struggling With Body Image Issues? Counseling can be a great tool for you to work on your relationship with your body and lead a happy, stress-free life. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Frequently Asked Questions Are Body Image Issues only limited to a particular gender? Body image issues can affect individuals of all genders. While body image issues are usually represented as a female issue, it is, in fact, an issue that can affect anyone. How you perceive your body is linked to your self-esteem and can often lead to mental health difficulties and disordered eating.  What are other ways to improve the relationship I have with my body? Developing a healthy relationship with your body can be difficult, but it isn’t impossible. Being compassionate with yourself and accepting yourself for your qualities and your flaws can help you improve the relationship with your body. Other ways to manage body image difficulties is to challenge negative, self-critical thoughts to produce more logical, rational, and positive ones. Also, if you feel like you need some professional help, it is always great to approach a mental health professional, like a therapist to help you with this.  Do cultural and societal standards impact body image? Certainly! Popular culture or the mainstream culture often celebrate an “ideal” or “perfect” version of how a person should look. This, is often an unrealistic standard that most people fail to meet. These societal standards can often perpetuate body image difficulties as people often try to be like these ideal versions, creating low self-esteem.  About the Author This article was written by Simran Sharma, Counselor at Inner Space. This post was consulted & approved by professional therapists practicing online therapy and counseling.  Ask a Therapist If you are interested to know more about body image and other mental health topics, ‘Ask A Therapist’ is a platform for you to ask your questions related to Mental Health, Mindfulness & Emotional Well-Being to our team of qualified Therapists. Ask a Therapist Related Blogs Managing Difficult Thoughts Mindfully Body Image Issues In Adolescence: How Can You Develop A Positive Body Image?? Coping with Social Anxiety: The Fear of Being Judged

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Dealing with Difficult Times Mindfully

There may be difficult times in your life when you feel like things aren’t going your way. No matter how much effort you put in, nothing seems to be falling in place! When you feel low, you may experience low moods often and you may also have noticed that you struggle to eat, sleep or even enjoy a conversation with a friend.  This could lead you to start feeling depressed and dejected! Distracting yourself with a movie or scrolling through Instagram is our first go-to method of dealing with difficult times. But no matter how much you try, you just can’t seem to shake off that glum feeling for good. More often than not, the feeling comes back, making you feel worse than before! So how do we then deal with these difficult times mindfully?  You may find this particular Zen story helpful in such times.  A student went to his meditation teacher and said, “My meditation is horrible! I feel so distracted, or my legs ache, or I’m constantly falling asleep. It’s just horrible!” Begin Your Practice of Self Awareness & Well being  With Our Free E-Book ‘First Few Steps To Mindfulness’ Click here “It will pass,” the teacher said matter-of-factly. A week later, the student came back to his teacher. “My meditation is wonderful! I feel so aware, so peaceful, so alive! It’s just wonderful!’ “It will pass,” the teacher replied matter-of-factly. The story points to the truth of life. Impermanence is the only permanent aspect in our lives. Everything you love and hold dear will be gone eventually. We don’t like to think about losing the people and objects we love, but to assume we will have them forever is pointless. Accepting that things change, sometimes not in the way we want, is an important lesson helping us to grow and become mature adults. Remembering impermanence and accepting it helps us to accept that the negative states will pass. Practicing the art of reminding yourself about impermanence frequently helps our mind realize thus and so, aids in dealing with the difficult times mindfully. About the Author SHARE THIS BLOG! READ SIMILAR BLOGS Working Through Body Image Difficulties Mindfully What are Body Image Difficulties? How many times have you… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Recognising Our Feelings What Does it Mean to ‘Feel’? Our feelings are responsible… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Benefits Of Mindfulness The Many Benefits Of Mindfulness Benefits Of Mindfulness Mindfulness helps… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 17, 2021 Feeling Stuck? Why is Change Difficult ? Is there a change you’ve been wanting to make since… Read More Sadia SaeedJanuary 20, 2015

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