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Understanding Common Causes Of Anxiety In Teenagers

Anxiety In Teenagers And Its Significance Adolescence is a crucial period marked by significant physical, emotional, and cognitive changes in an individual. Teenagers see these changes unfold rapidly, and they also notice a shift in how they are viewed by others around them.  Many teenagers feel like they are stuck in a grey zone, where they are neither a child, nor an adult. While many adolescents become well-adjusted to this shift, others tend to feel an immense pressure while trying to fit in and navigate through their adolescent years.  The teenage experience of adolescence can be complicated and certainly confusing. Therefore, it is quite common for them to experience anxiety during this stage. This article focuses on understanding what causes anxiety among teenagers, and the significance of it.  Top Common Causes of Anxiety in Teenagers Academic Pressure: Many teens go through immense pressure from the family to perform well academically. This can cause teens to place unrealistic, high expectations for themselves. Additionally, being in a competitive academic space can also trigger feelings of inadequacy and comparison, which leads to anxiety. Social Acceptance: Social validation and acceptance are highly important to teenagers. Being socially isolated by their peers, or the fear of it can cause excessive worry about not being liked by everyone. Bodily Changes: One of the most externally visible changes in a teen during adolescence is bodily, or physical. Adjusting to a new frame takes time and can come with a lot of internal and external judgement. This can also cause extreme worry or body insecurities. Social Media: Social media has now become an indispensable part of many teenagers’ lives. Social media provides ample opportunities for social validation- through likes and comments. This can cause many teens to associate their self-worth with the numbers on social media. An over-reliance on social media for social validation, and comparing their lives with others, can cause anxiety and low self-esteem. Negative Experiences: Having negative, traumatic experiences, like losing a loved one, going through physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, and bullying, can cause severe anxiety. Interpersonal Relationships: During adolescence, teens can find a change in how they interact with their family, friends, and in other relationships. For instance, due to the shifting roles at home, teens no longer resonate with the title of being “the child,” while the parent still views them as one. This can cause frustration, anger, and ultimately conflicts in the family. Also, during teenage, there is a shift in how relationships are approached. Teens may begin to show romantic interests and may begin dating. Handling newer experiences in relationships can be daunting, and anxiety can be an expected outcome of this fear. Worry about the future: Teens may experience worry about multiple things in their future. They could feel anxious trying to picture how their life would look in terms of their career, lovelife, friendship, or just their future in general. Importance Of Identifying And Addressing The Underlying Causes Of Anxiety In Teens. Anxiety is a normal human experience. Everyone, from a child to an adult, can experience bouts of anxiety from time-to-time. Navigating through multiple shifts at once, as a teen, can be challenging. As a result, teens may experience anxiety while moving through these changes.  While some anxiety is normal, excessive worrying and anxiety during this stage can cause a multitude of physical, emotional, and social setbacks. Therefore, it is imperative to identify, address, and work towards understanding the cause of anxiety and resolve it.  Here are some of the reasons why it is important to work through anxiety in adolescence: It Helps With Understanding “The Self” Teenagers tend to go through many physical and mental changes around adolescence. During this stage, their idea of “self” changes and they try to find an identity that they deeply resonate with. This process can bring in anxiety for many teens as they try to have an identity that stands out, and is also relatable and similar to their peers.  A secure identity and a positive attitude towards oneself during this stage can make them well-adjusted adults in the future.  It Helps With The Fear of Being Socially Isolated Adolescence is also a stage where there are changes in the way teens interact with people. For teenagers, it is crucial for them to fit in and be liked by everyone. Having different interests or being different from others can put them in a disadvantageous position. In such instances, many teens can feel anxious, as not fitting in could affect their identity. This internal discomfort can lead to social anxiety or anxiety of not being liked. Working with this anxiety is important as it helps you learn the skills necessary to hold interpersonal relationships and connect with people. It Helps With Understanding Your Emotions Better As a person moves from childhood to adolescence, they are introduced to many new, complex emotions. As the situations and their environment begin to change, so do their responses. Teens can sometimes feel overwhelmed by what they feel. As a child they would have a single, monotonous emotion, but as they grow older, emotions can get more difficult to differentiate. This confusion towards their own feelings can cause anxiety, and resolving and understanding this anxiety can improve the teen’s perception of their emotions, which is also known as “emotional literacy.” It Helps With Improving Your Familial and Interpersonal Relationships Working through the anxiety during teen years can also improve familial and interpersonal relationships. As the teen becomes aware of their anxiety and other uncomfortable emotions, they start to become more articulate about these emotions. Communicating about their feelings with their loved ones can create a positive dialogue and build a better relationship with them.  Being a teenager can be confusing and difficult. Get the support you need to live a happier, healthier life with our online Teen Counseling services. Book an Appointment Conclusion For a teenager, adolescence is a confusing and worrying phase of their life. Teenage brings with it opportunities for growth and learning.

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Teen Mental Health Challenges In The Modern World

Teen Mental Health Challenges In The Modern World

Adolescence is a time of many shifts, both in the mind and the body. It is a transformative period, where there is a growing curiosity about oneself and the people around them.  Teenage certainly isn’t a smooth period in one’s life. It is a time when one invests time into self-exploration and learns more about how and where they fit in. During this phase, with a myriad of changes, it is quite natural to face stress and worry over what could happen, and whether we would be accepted by everyone.  While many emphasize on the significance of having a healthy childhood, people tend to undermine the relevance of being a happy, well-adjusted teen.  The teenager in this stage, grapples with the many changes happening within and around them. It is a time where they try to fit in and find a niche for themselves. Adding to this, the teenagers of the present world also have the added challenge of maintaining their presence in an online, virtual world.  Thus, the teenagers today have to not just balance the challenges of growing up and accepting change, they also have to learn to navigate through the standards and norms of a virtual world as well. Balancing two worlds can be difficult, and therefore, acknowledging and understanding the significance of teenage mental health becomes important. The Changing Landscape Of Teen Mental Health The world as we now know it, is a product of the many significant changes and developments that have occurred only in the recent years. Due to advancements in technology, we can now connect to people across the globe with just a click of a button. Teeangers these days enjoy a plethora of options to connect with their peers without any hassle, over the internet.  But can these virtual interactions replicate actual, human interactions?  Ironically, there has been a surge in mental health disorders, loneliness and discontentment among teenagers in recent years. As of 2021, around the world, approximately one in seven teenagers suffer from at least one mental health disorder.  There are also other factors contributing to the pervasive mental pressure that teenagers face these days. While social media and technology are recent developments, there are other aspects that contribute negatively to the modern-day teenager’s mental health.  For instance, unrealistic body standards, shifting family dynamics, navigating through changes in the mind and the body, and managing peer and academic pressure may trigger mental health issues in many teenagers.  Therefore, it becomes imperative to understand the issues and challenges faced by teens. We have highlighted some of the most common mental health challenges among teens below:  Common Mental Health Challenges Among Teens 1. Social Media and Peer Pressure: Social approval, social acceptance, and social validation are some of the most important needs of the adolescent. As teenagers, it is quite normal and common for them to dabble into and try out new things that would gain approval from their peers. Peer pressure is a very common phenomenon experienced by many teenagers. For a teenager, peer pressure puts them in a tricky situation. If their peers pressure them into doing something they don’t like or something that their parents don’t approve of, it creates guilt and shame within them.  Or, if they don’t give in to peer pressure, there is also a huge chance of being isolated or rejected by their peer group. For a teenager going through adolescence, social approval is of utmost importance.  As a result, many teenagers experience stress, confusion, guilt, or may indulge in habits that may not be good for them.  Social media, in essence, is designed to provide you with social validation through likes, comments, and sharing just the happy, positive moments of your life. However, many teenagers use social media to base their self-worth on the numbers on social media, leading to poorer mental health.  Social media tends to only show a filtered version of life, and it shows only what others want you to see. This creates a warped form of reality.  “They have it better than me,” is something teenagers find themselves saying quite often. Many teens may find themselves constantly comparing themselves and their lives to what they see online.  While social media isn’t the sole reason for teenagers’ poor mental health, the excessive and mindless usage of it can definitely create low self-worth among teenagers and can lead to a multitude of mental health concerns like anxiety, depression, or substance use.  2. Academic Pressure and Performance Stress: Adolescence is one of the most turbulent and transformative periods of an individual’s life. During this stage, many teens begin to ponder over the question, “What next?”  Teenagers use this period to figure out their careers. This decision-making process can be uncomfortable, stressful, and daunting. There is a lot of pressure from oneself and also the family to choose the right field of study to ensure a secure career. And to choose the right field of study, the teen goes through immense academic pressure. Parents, and many of the grown-ups around the teen, constantly remind them of how important it is to score and perform well academically.  This causes the teen to set high expectations for themselves, thus, creating anxiety. Additionally, the competitive nature of education also causes the teen to constantly doubt themselves and compare their performance to others, creating more performance anxiety, stress, depression, procrastination, and self-doubt.  3. Digital Dependency and Screen Time: This is related to the excessive social media usage among teenagers. With the term “doom-scrolling” gaining popularity, it is becoming more apparent that everyone, including teenagers, are using their screens excessively.  Excessive screen dependency can lead to using social media and other mediums like binge-watching content online, gaming, and other means, to numb or suppress emotions. One of the main characteristics of adolescence is attaining emotional maturity and exploring various negative emotions that come up like sadness, angst, and irritability.  When there is an over dependence on the screens, teens do not learn how to sit with their feelings or actually feel

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Mindfulness during difficult times

How To Use Mindfulness During Stressful Situations

How To Approach Mindfulness During Stressful Situations? In today’s times, mindfulness practices have become pretty well known as stress management practices. Even if one does not practice, one has at least heard of mindfulness as something that brings down stress. However, what still remains less known is, how to approach mindfulness during stressful situations? What to expect from it when one is going through an emotional upheaval?  For instance, you’re going through a particularly difficult phase in life like job loss, relationship loss, a significant life change, conflict and upheaval at home, a very hard part of your student life or career, a significant mental health issue, debilitating physical issues and so on. Does mindfulness magically wipe out your stress? Or does it help in more cumulative, subtle ways? Let’s find out! What to not expect from a Mindfulness Practice during a stressful situation? The main thing that you should not expect from mindfulness practices during a difficult time is – the typical image that comes to your mind when you think of mindfulness. A content person sitting on a hill, feeling light, blissful and worry free. This expectation can become your worst enemy during a difficult time and can cause you to believe that mindfulness isn’t helping. It can cause you to let go of the practice and lose out on all the benefits it actually brings about. If you are practicing mindfulness during a difficult time, it’s very helpful not to expect: Your mood to lift significantly Yourself to feel good for hours or days A clear, fresh mind for a long span of time Significantly improved memory and focus To stop worrying about your problems To stop feeling low or down You will most likely still feel difficult feelings, have worrying bouts, crying spells, anger bouts, emotional eating or binge shopping sprees -depending on how stress tends to manifest itself for you. Mindfulness does not erase this out, at least not until years of practice and learning take place. So if you expect to breathe and be for 10 minutes a day and then feel like the blissful person on the mountain, you will be sorely disappointed, something that is completely avoidable if you know what to expect! Mindfulness does not erase the humanness in you. Instead, it builds capacity and softness within you to receive and cope with that humanness better. So, now that we have dealt with what not to expect, do not despair, mindfulness has some very tangible and robust benefits that will help, especially as you practice. Let’s now look at the good news – how indeed mindfulness helps during a tough time! Research On Mindfulness Eager to learn more about mindfulness? We have gathered all of the recent studies on the benefits of mindfulness to help you unlock the path to greater well-being and mental clarity. Know More What You Can Expect From Mindfulness Practice In A Stressful Situation? Opportunity for a Reset: Even if it’s just for some time, you tend to feel lighter, clearer, more relaxed. This opportunity to reset is very important to fill your cup a bit while the difficulty empties it. A Break for the Nervous System: Your nervous system is going through a whole lot during difficult times. It remains wired up and dysregulated, sometimes for weeks or months together. Mindfulness practice helps this dysregulated nervous system stabilize for a bit. Your heart rate, blood pressure, breathing quality, muscle tension, digestion, circulation etc are all affected when you are under perpetual stress. Mindfulness helps all this stabilize at least for some time before you deal with the difficulty again. This helps your body and nervous system a great deal. It can help all your body and brain functions to reset and release at least for some time each day. When you are dealing with a chronic difficulty, this opportunity means a lot. The body gets some space to repair, the mind gets some space to just be. Opportunity for small little insights: When you return to stillness and the present moment (instead of being just in your head), it helps you think better, get some perspective/insight. This may not happen all the time but is of great help when it does. These little (or sometimes bigger) aha moments can open up new ways of seeing things when you feel like you’ve hit a dead end. The practice itself builds resilience – mindfulness practice in itself changes how stressed you feel and for how long. But this is a long term benefit and needs consistent practice. You can read more about the benefits of mindfulness here.  Better Ability to snap out of overthinking- With more practice, your ability to recognize when you are getting caught up in brooding and ruminating becomes better. You become better able to release the impulse to keep thinking and instead, just be. You become better able to check in with yourself and see when you are tired of stressing and to release that stress, just for a bit. This increased flexibility helps a whole lot during a difficult time. You do not then need an entire shopping spree or 3 pizzas to feel better. You become better able to regulate yourself, and decide when it’s time to stop stressing and just be in the moment. This is a huge benefit when we need to run a psychological marathon. It helps greatly in the ability to rest mentally. It helps greatly in being able to come back to the situation better once you have had that mental rest, even if it’s just for one activity like – ‘ I’m thinking while swimming, let me release my stress and just feel the water while I swim’. Hope this gives you some idea of how mindfulness is likely to help during difficult times. It’s like a silent friend. You feel like nothing is happening, but something is definitely happening. It’s just not as loud or obvious as, ‘I don’t think this will bother me anymore’. Its

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Agoraphobia and panic attacks

Exploring The Link Between Agoraphobia And Panic Attacks

What is Agoraphobia? Agoraphobia comprises two words of Greek origin. “Agora” means “open or public space” and “phobos” means fear. Thus, agoraphobia is a type of anxiety disorder that refers to the fear of open or public spaces, where you feel you won’t receive any help or can’t escape.  If you experience agoraphobia, you may feel helpless and trapped in public spaces or in crowds. You may feel like there would be no one to help you if something happens to you. You may also feel like you will lose control in public spaces.  Eventually, to avoid these overwhelming fears, you may avoid public spaces. You may also avoid going out of your house. This can negatively affect your personal relationships, work, or school. Agoraphobia is a scary, difficult experience for those who go through it. Yet, people many people are unaware of this disorder and its connection to panic attacks. This article explores this relationship between agoraphobia and panic attacks. We talk about why it is important to identify agoraphobia, and the consequences of neglecting it. We will also guide you through some ways through which you can manage agoraphobia.  Symptoms of Agoraphobia Agoraphobia is a form of anxiety disorder. Therefore, when you think about or visit public or open spaces, you may experience extreme anxiety. Agoraphobia symptoms often overlap with symptoms of anxiety and a panic, making it difficult to make sense of. If you are experiencing agoraphobia, you may notice the following symptoms when you are in, or imagine being in open, public spaces: Fear of losing control in a public space  Fear of not receiving help when needed  Fear of being trapped in a public space Fear of being away from home Fear of being in crowded and open spaces These fears can be suffocating and overwhelming for you. As a result, you may experience feelings of anxiety and panic.  Sometimes, the fear can be extreme, and can result in a panic attack. Due to the persistent and extreme anxiety, you may begin to avoid stepping out of your home. Going out alone to do everyday tasks can seem terrifying without a companion. And thus, you may spend most of your time at home as your fear holds you back. What Are The Common Triggers For Agoraphobia? There is a misconception that agoraphobia happens only in public spaces. There are other situations that can trigger agoraphobia as well. Agoraphobia manifests often in places such as: Shops, theaters, malls, hospitals, restaurants Public Transport Crowded Spaces A line or queue  Enclosed spaces such as elevators or cubicles These situations can trigger a panic attack, or can cause anxiety symptoms like shaking, sweating, nausea, rapid heartbeat, and shallow breathing. In a world that constantly requires you to step out of your home to get tasks done, it may be difficult for you to manage things like school, work, travel, or visits to the hospital.  What Is The Relationship Between Agoraphobia And Panic Attacks? There is a strong relationship between agoraphobia and panic attacks. Agoraphobia can often arise as a result of repeated panic attacks. Experiencing frequent panic attacks, especially in public spaces, can make you fear having a panic attack in public again.  You may worry about not receiving help, or losing control in public. These fears can bring up feelings of helplessness and embarrassment. Sometimes, the fear of having a panic attack in public can be intense enough to trigger another panic attack. This creates a vicious and endless cycle. Therefore, the anxiety about having a panic attack becomes even more difficult to manage than the actual panic attack. You may become highly sensitive to any situation that could potentially lead to another panic attack.  This sensitivity can make you avoid being in public spaces, thus leading to agoraphobia.  The core of agoraphobia and panic attacks are anxiety. It is therefore important to handle the underlying anxiety in order to manage the symptoms of the anxiety disorder. Working with the anxiety and its root cause will subsequently reduce the panic and the agoraphobia.  Are your anxieties holding you back? Counseling can be a great tool for you to manage and overcome agoraphobia and lead a happy, stress-free life. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Managing Agoraphobia Treating Agoraphobia and other anxiety disorders have a lot to do with regulating the nervous system, and addressing the underlying anxiety.  But, How do we regulate our nervous system? Some of the best ways to do this is to: Adopt a self-care practice: Incorporate meditation, mild exercise, and mindfulness into your everyday life. These practices can reduce your stress levels, heart rate, and release happy hormones into your body. They are simple, yet effective, ways to heal from within and manage your anxiety.  Go for Therapy: Therapy is a great way to seek professional guidance to manage agoraphobia. Therapists can work with you to understand the underlying patterns of thinking that contribute towards your fear of public spaces.  The ideal way to treat agoraphobia would be a combination of a good self-care and self-help regime, counseling, and medications, if required. By using these techniques and with time, you will be able to manage agoraphobia and lead a joyful life.  Counseling And Therapy For Agoraphobia At Inner Space, we believe that managing agoraphobia requires a multi-dimensional approach. Therefore, our therapists help you observe the underlying patterns of negative thoughts and beliefs, and regulate your nervous system and body through relaxation and somatic therapies.  It is important to find the right therapist to help you through an anxiety disorder, such as agoraphobia. Going for counseling can help you learn ways to manage everyday stress and reduce symptoms.  Anxiety disorders can be a tough experience to go through. However, with the right support, you can manage agoraphobia and live your life with ease. Self-Help Techniques For Agoraphobia There are numerous self-help techniques you can do by yourself to manage some symptoms of agoraphobia. 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A Guide To Understanding And Managing Depression Symptoms

A Guide To Understanding And Managing Depression Symptoms

Depression is one of the most common mental health disorders. Currently, around 5% of adults in the world are suffering from depression. With a large number of people suffering from this disorder, there has been increased awareness surrounding it.  Despite this, there is considerable confusion between what can be considered sadness and depression. Therefore, understanding whether what you are going through is depression, lies in understanding the symptoms of depression.  Understanding the symptoms of depression, and what it is like can help you reach out for better mental health resources, treatment options, and work towards improving your mental health. In this article, we aim to give you more clarity on what depression is, it’s signs, some ways to manage depression, and options for treatment. However, if you are curious to learn more about sadness, and how to manage sadness, you can read more about it here.  Understanding The Symptoms Of Depression How can you tell if you are depressed? Depression can have clear, and sometimes vague signs, that go unnoticed.  Depression can be understood as a constant feeling of sadness or hopelessness, which doesn’t go away easily. Depression, like other mental health disorders, significantly impact your ability to function in your personal, social, school, and professional life. While screening for depression, here are some physical, mental, and emotional  Depression also manifests in the form of physical, mental, and emotional symptoms:  Physical symptoms Sudden weight loss or weight gain Shifts in sleep patterns, sleeping too much, or too less Anxiety about the future or past events Random pains, body aches, and numbness that come up without any explanation Excessive crying, or sometimes, finding it very difficult to cry Emotional and Mental Symptoms Irritation or anger towards yourself or others Excessive shame and guilt Engaging in reckless behavior such as binge drinking, drunk driving, so on Difficulty concentrating on tasks Feeling numb and zoned out during conversations Feeling lost and hopeless Feeling tired  Engaging in suicidal and self-harm behaviors, or having thoughts about suicide* We are not a crisis intervention center, hence if you feel actively suicidal or have frequent suicidal thoughts, we strongly recommend speaking to a crisis or suicide helpline. Differences Between Symptoms Of Depression And Sadness Depression can often look like extreme sadness. However, there are differences between the two that can help you effectively identify  what you are going through. -Sadness is a common, normal human emotion everyone experiences occasionally that goes away with time. But, depression is a serious mental health condition  that requires professional help and support.  -Sadness can be triggered by certain life events and usually have a cause behind the emotion. Depression can appear due to a variety of reasons and it can be difficult to identify a single trigger.  -While depression may appear to be similar to sadness to others, depression is more severe and intense, and its symptoms can take longer to alleviate than sadness.  -When compared to sadness, depression can severely impact normal functioning and the quality of our lives. Sadness is only temporary and usually doesn’t affect your daily life.  -Depression is also characterized by suicidal thoughts, and intentions to end one’s life. This, however, is not noticed with sadness. Dealing With Depression Symptoms The signs and symptoms of depression can often feel like there is little to no way out of it. However, there are numerous ways, apart from therapy or medication, to manage depression through self-help techniques. Here are some ways you can support yourself through depression. Seek support from the people around  you: Depression can often make you feel withdrawn from others. However, putting in slight efforts to engage with your family, friends, and loved ones can help you feel better. Talking to your loved ones about your feelings, can also make you feel heard and validated and can lessen the intensity of the depression. Engage in activities you like to do: A common symptom of depression is to lose interest in things you like to do usually. Therefore, trying to pursue your usual hobbies and newer ones can help you feel lighter and can improve your mood.  Maintain regular mild to moderate physical activity: Exercise and mild physical activities help in releasing endorphins, which are known as the “feel-good” hormones. Having a good amount of endorphins in your system helps you feel happier and can alleviate your symptoms of depression. Mild physical activity can also help in managing your sleep cycle and the pains in your body as well.  Manage Anxiety: Anxiety commonly occurs with depression. When anxiety happens along with depression, it can cause you to get stuck in negative thought spirals. With depression it also becomes easier for you to believe in the negative thoughts. Therefore, managing anxiety with the help of mindfulness meditation, therapy, and other techniques can help lessen the intensity of the depressive symptoms.  Notice your negative thoughts: This is inspired by Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, which is a form of therapy that works on unhelpful, negative thought patterns. With depression and anxiety, our mind tends to be stuck onto negative thoughts and core beliefs we hold true about ourselves, others, and the world. These extreme, negative thoughts can bring about negative emotions, which overtime lead to anxiety and depression. One of the first steps to work on depression is to observe the negative thoughts we have in our daily life. Noting these down and learning to believe in a more balanced version of these thoughts can therefore, bring about positive emotions.  Consume a balanced diet: Our gut is known as our “second brain.” Our brain and gut are in constant communication and their activities influence one another. Therefore, what we feed our gut ultimately affects what we think and how we feel. Having a balanced, healthy diet with limited processed foods can improve our gut health, which thereby improves our mental well-being.  Feeling low? Counseling can be a great tool for you to manage and overcome depression and lead a happy, balanced life. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Therapy

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: Overcoming The Constant Battle In Your Mind

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: Overcoming The Constant Battle In Your Mind

OCD is a deeply misunderstood disorder. Often, we see people around us referring to someone as being “extremely OCD,” when they are talking about someone who is keen on cleanliness and order.  When people talk about OCD, they tend to miss out on the more difficult, less-understood parts of it. It is much more than being a “neat-freak.” Learning more about the actual symptoms of OCD can help you understand the disorder better for yourself and others around you. This way, you can seek the right type of help and be aware of the signs of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.  This article is a guide to understanding what Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, or OCD, is, its symptoms, treatment options, and ways to manage it.  What is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder? Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is an anxiety disorder where you can have repeated thoughts in your mind, which causes you extreme anxiety. These are known as “Obsessions.” As a result of these thoughts, you may feel anxious. And to feel better, you may find the need to do something. These are referred to as “Compulsions.”  If you experience OCD, you may also experience severe anxiety, guilt, and difficulty in leading a normal life. Thus, it would be incorrect to assume that someone who is simply particular about being clean and orderly has OCD. Common Obsessions in Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Obsessions are repeated, intrusive thoughts you may experience. These thoughts could be shameful, scary, or worrying in nature. Sometimes, people may also have obsessive thoughts that go against their cultural and religious beliefs.  Obsessions aren’t simply “thoughts.” Obsessions are relentless thoughts and ideas that can keep bothering you and cause you a lot of discomfort. They are difficult to get rid of.  While obsessions may vary with each individual, there are some common obsessions that occur in OCD. These are: Fearing that you will be contaminated with germs, or that you will be dirty.  Having unacceptable intrusive thoughts about sex and religion that goes against personal and societal beliefs.  Feeling like everything should be symmetrical, in order, or be “just perfect.” Worrying excessively whether you or someone you know may experience something awful (like death or an accident.) Many people may experience a fear of losing their loved ones, or may have sexual fantasies, or may feel like everything should look neat. These are quite common and normal.  But, these thoughts turn into obsessions when they become intrusive and keep you from having a healthy life.  Common Compulsions In Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Also, at times obsessions can feel extreme, immoral, or unacceptable. You may feel like you are unable to control or get rid of it. So a way to reduce the anxiety we feel from these thoughts is to do certain things or “compulsions.” Compulsions are actions you do to reduce the anxiety, fear, or shame created by obsessive thoughts. Some of the common compulsions are: To feel more clean and free from germs, you may repeatedly wash your hands with soap, sanitize your hands, take frequent baths, or you may avoid sharing items with others.  To reduce unacceptable thoughts of sex or religion, you may pray more, or use certain rituals to avoid the thoughts. To manage the thoughts of things being perfect, you may ensure that you follow a strict routine, you may spend a lot of time ensuring things are in correct order.  To handle the fear of something dangerous happening to you or your loved one, you may repeatedly check if you or others are safe. You may look out for weapons, or check if there is anything that may cause harm.  Compulsions are not just “habits.” They are a response to the overwhelming fear and anxiety you may experience from obsessive thoughts.  Compulsions can impact your self-esteem, ability to function normally, and may cause you to avoid situations or people that can trigger these feelings. You may feel deeply guilty, conscious, or shameful of what your mind tells you. You may also feel powerless over your mind.  However, OCD is a completely manageable condition. With the right support and professional help, you can address the root cause of your OCD, and work towards a peaceful and happy life.  What Causes Obsessive Compulsive Disorder? Like other Anxiety Disorders, OCD is also deeply rooted in anxiety.  These anxieties could be deeper fears about losing control, dying, or may fear being unattractive or unloved. Since these anxieties are too painful, uncontrollable, or difficult to process, our brain creates ways to gain a sense of relief and control over the anxiety.  Thus, acting on the compulsions can bring us temporary relief from the anxious, obsessive thoughts. OCD also protects us by making us avoid things that trigger our fears. For example, those who may experience fear of being contaminated may avoid using common items, or visiting public places.  OCD can be caused due to genetics, or may be linked to stressful life events. It may also co-occur with other anxiety disorders. We understand how disturbing, exhausting, and difficult OCD can be.  However, with support and time, you will be able to manage these obsessive thoughts without feeling deeply anxious. Are your anxieties holding you back? Counseling can be a great tool for you to manage and overcome Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and lead a happy, stress-free life. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Managing Obsessive Compulsive Disorder OCD is a condition that can be managed with the right kind of self and professional support, and lifestyle changes. We have mentioned some ways OCD can be managed below: Since OCD is an anxiety disorder, it can worsen with stress. Therefore, following a healthy diet, exercising, and taking up hobbies can reduce your stress levels and OCD symptoms.  Meditation and Mindfulness are great tools for you to stay focused, present, and feel less stressed. Performing deep breathing and mindful awareness exercises can make you feel more in control of the situation. Sometimes being simply aware that you are having an obsessive thought can put

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understand and manage anxiety disorders

Understanding Anxiety Disorders and How To Manage Them

Anxiety is a common emotion that many of us are familiar with. We may all experience it on certain occasions that may be stressful. This is why not all anxiety is an anxiety disorder. However, when anxiety builds up over time, and is ignored, it can manifest in different ways. There are some common ways how unprocessed anxiety manifests in our lives, and these are known as anxiety disorders. Anxiety Disorders can cause a great deal of stress while carrying out daily activities. Normally, anxiety is a helpful emotion that warns us when we are under threat. But when we experience excessive anxiety, it starts to take control over different parts of our life negatively. The key to managing your anxiety disorders is to understand them. In this article, we look through the different anxiety disorders, and ways you can manage them. Managing anxiety is essential to help you overcome anxiety disorders and lead a well-balanced and peaceful life. When Is An Anxiety Disorder Diagnosed? “Feeling anxious” is considered to be an anxiety disorder when your anxiety starts affecting your daily life. With Anxiety Disorders, anxiety takes the center stage of your life. You may spend most of your time managing or worrying  about certain symptoms coming back. For anxiety to be considered a disorder it must be so much that it impacts your social and work life. With anxiety disorders like Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, you may worry about your intrusive thoughts. This may lead you to engage in compulsive behaviors.  On the other hand with Panic Disorder, you may begin to worry if a panic attack may occur again. You may also begin to avoid public spaces due to your fear of getting a panic attack. This fear of public spaces is known as Agoraphobia.  Excessive anxiety can manifest in multiple forms. Therefore, there are different types of Anxiety Disorders. Types of Anxiety Disorders The core feature of all anxiety disorders is unresolved anxiety. This anxiety can be overwhelming and deep-rooted, and we may be unable to process or sit with it. Therefore, our mind and body bring out various symptoms to distract us from the anxiety.    These symptoms over time, turn into Anxiety Disorders. They are of the following types:    Generalized Anxiety Disorder: Generalized Anxiety Disorder or GAD involves extreme fear or worry in almost every aspect of life. You may also experience certain bodily symptoms such as tiredness, muscle pain or stiffness, and a change in sleep and eating patterns.  Social Anxiety Disorder: In this disorder, you may avoid social situations, or you may find social settings overwhelming. You may avoid speaking in public, socializing with people, or avoid eating in public.  Panic Disorder: Panic Disorder involves repeated panic attacks. A panic attack is a sudden onset of extreme fear and distress in the mind and the body. It causes sweating, palpitations, chest heaviness, rapid breathing, and a fear of losing control or dying. It can be an extremely frightening experience, and it may make you worried about having another panic attack.  Agoraphobia: Agoraphobia is a fear of being in public spaces. It is a fear of not being able to escape, or not receiving help. It could happen on its own, or as a result of a panic disorder. Agoraphobia with a panic disorder may cause you to worry about having another panic attack in public, and not receiving help. This can make you avoid getting out of your home, or you may only leave with a companion.  Phobia: Phobias are fear of specific things, situations, or people. A fear is called a phobia when what you fear isn’t usually harmful. Some common examples of phobia are the phobia of blood, certain animals, insects, water, and flying. Separation Anxiety: This is the intense fear of being separated from a close one. If you experience separation anxiety, you may try to stay as close as you can with the close one. You may also worry if you may lose them, and may have nightmares of losing them.  Thus, anxiety shows up in various forms which are broadly termed as “Anxiety Disorders.” To treat anxiety disorders, you will have to address the deeply rooted anxiety within you. It is only then you may find relief from the symptoms of anxiety.  Medication for Anxiety Disorders: Is It Necessary? Whether medication is necessary for anxiety disorders or not depends upon the severity of the symptoms and the extent of dysfunction these symptoms bring to your life. Sometimes, you may deal with severe anxiety which may produce extreme symptoms. If these symptoms disturb multiple areas of your life, then medications become necessary.  Medications help to treat and manage the symptoms of various anxiety disorders. Medications like benzodiazepines, for example, can help with the rapid heartbeat and anxiety during panic attacks.  However, treating anxiety has a lot to do with regulating the nervous system. Medications only help the symptoms of the anxiety disorder and may be very necessary to manage the difficulty for a while. However, the deep rooted issues leading to the anxiety disorders can only be worked through by therapy and regular relaxation, meditation and other self-management practices.   Are your anxieties holding you back? Counseling can be a great tool for you to manage and overcome your anxiety and lead a happy, stress-free life. We are here for you. Book an Appointment Counseling And Therapy For Anxiety Disorders At Inner Space, we believe that treating anxiety requires a multi-dimensional approach. Therefore, our therapists help you observe the underlying patterns of negative thoughts and beliefs, and regulate your nervous system and body through relaxation and somatic therapies.  Learning to handle anxiety requires learning to process fears and sit with difficult emotions. These practices are crucial to overcoming anxiety and taking charge of your life again. A good and qualified therapist can help you stay with fear and process it. Therefore it is important to find the right therapist to help you through an anxiety disorder. Going for counseling can

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Overcome Depression And Reclaim Your Life

When you are suffering from depression, you may feel like your entire life revolves around managing your negative thoughts and feelings caused by depression. You may be having a sense of worthlessness, hopelessness, and you may think that there isn’t a point in going forward in life.  These thoughts are often accompanied by a feeling of being extremely low. These negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions lead to the diagnosis of depression. Depression is increasingly becoming common, with more than 5% of adults in the world being diagnosed with it.  Having depression can make it difficult for you to feel joy, and can feel like there is no end to these feelings of loneliness, gloom, and sadness. Life can feel monotonous, and can feel like it lacks color and vibrancy. To know more about the symptoms of depression, click here.  No matter how dark or gloomy life may seem when you are experiencing depression, there are ways to overcome depression and manage it. Due to the several studies and consistent research being done on understanding depression, there are now tested ways to work with and manage depression. This article consists of a list of ways through which you help through your depression, and lead a happier and smoother life. Ways To Manage Depression The path to recovery from depression can be challenging. It can be difficult to understand the symptoms, and identify depression in ourselves and others. Even after recognizing these symptoms, there is stigma that is often associated with seeking treatment for depression, despite how common of a mental health condition it is.   This stigma often makes people hesitate to ask for help and look up for resources to manage their depression. Here are some ways that you can improve some of the symptoms of depression you may be experiencing. Understand your depression symptoms: Understanding that depression is a disorder, and not a personal failure or problem on your part is an essential step towards getting better. As you have a condition, it requires support and treatment. You don’t have to go through it all alone. As depression is becoming increasingly common, you can read how others going through depression feel. Understanding your symptoms, and the ways people around you are managing it can give you clarity on what you are dealing with. Listening to people’s stories of those who have overcome depression can also be inspiring and can instill hope within you that it does it get better with time.  Seek professional help: Therapy is an effective tool in understanding the thoughts and negative beliefs that support and prolong the feelings of depression. Therapists help you notice these feelings and create space for the emotions, instead of suppressing or pushing them away. Therapy also helps you uncover and explore the emotions beyond the apparent ones. Sometimes, when you explore depression, you can notice feelings of shame, anger, guilt, and other emotions coming up. Therapy can help you process these complex emotions by dealing with them in a safe space.  Therapists can also help you identify negative thought and feeling patterns that enable depression to stay within your system. Thus, building this awareness helps in developing a deeper understanding of what causes and sustains your depression.  Consider medication: If you feel like your symptoms are too intense, and are affecting personal, work, and social functioning, then you should consider using medications. However, medications for depression should be consumed only under clinical supervision, like a psychiatrist.  Medications for depression can help you manage these symptoms and can make you feel more balanced.  Engage in activities you like to do: One of the main signs of depression is losing interest in doing things you normally do. You may notice that you don’t like following your normal routine or do activities that bring you joy. You may also begin to withdraw from your loved ones. Engaging in joyful activities like talking to friends and loved ones, doing mild exercises, going for a walk, can help even if you are not up to doing them. This is because doing these activities have built in rewards which release feel-good hormones like endorphins into the body once they are done, helping you overcome depression.  Do regular physical activity: Doing mild forms of activities, like slow yoga for even a short span of time like 15 minutes can reduce low mood. Being regular and consistent with taking out a few minutes for mild physical activity can bring a huge difference into your mental health. Mindfulness and meditation: The concept of mindfulness has been around for centuries. Incorporating mindfulness into meditation can bring a huge shift in your mental health. People often have a misconception that mindfulness meditation or meditation in general is to “quieten” the mind. However, mindfulness helps you observe and watch your thoughts and emotions without getting entangled in them.  Since it is a practice, it isn’t something that comes to many people right away. If you are starting out with a new practice like meditation, you can start by taking a course so that you will be doing the course with a group of people motivating you. You can learn more about and register for our 8-Week Mindfulness Meditation Course here.  Or, you can take a small step to simply get started with a guided meditation right away by clicking here.   Having a balanced diet: We refer to our gut as our “second brain.” Our brain and gut communicate constantly, and both are influenced by one another’s actions. As a result, what we put into our bodies ultimately shapes how we think and feel. Depression also alters our appetite levels. If you have an increased appetite, it is best to consume healthy foods, even if you eat often.  Try your best to avoid sugary snacks. Sugary foods can make you feel better momentarily, however it does slow down your digestion, and lower your energy, increase fatigue, and reduce your motivation in the long run. Therefore, try to incorporate more fresh vegetables and fruits

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How To Choose The Right Online Counselor For Your Needs

Online counseling is a service that addresses mental health issues and is provided via video call, chat, phone, or email. Today, psychological support and counseling are much easier to acquire than before. Location used to be important, but those days are long gone. Nowadays, many licensed counselors and therapists have an online presence, making it simple and comfortable for you to find treatment within the comfort of your home. Like any in-person therapy, online counseling focuses on helping you acknowledge, understand, and gradually change the way you perceive thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that affect your mental health. It provides you with an opportunity to talk and interact in a setting that’s more conducive and convenient than visiting a therapist’s office. Factors To Consider While Selecting A Right Online Counselor or Therapist Let’s look at some factors you need to consider when selecting a right online counselor or therapist. Determine your needs – Understand what you intend to gain from therapy. The clearer your mind is regarding your therapy goals, the easier it will be to review your progress. This will also assist you in determining whether you can benefit the most from therapy. For instance, you might need help addressing a specific mental health concern. Or you might want to voice your worries and talk about something that’s been bothering you for a while now. Whatever the reason, you can communicate with an online counselor and ensure these concerns are addressed in the session. Assess your compatibility with potential counselors – If you’re transitioning from in-person to online therapy, it’s better to keep certain things in mind. You might not succeed in finding the right online counselor on your first try. That’s totally okay! Going through a few counselors before settling on the right professional is always better than working with someone who doesn’t understand your mental health needs. For instance, would you prefer interacting with someone of the same gender? Or would you be more comfortable talking to someone who is older, younger, or more or less your age? Something that you may also want to consider is sexual orientation. There are many counselors who are queer affirmative and offer pride counseling online. Thus, look for a counselor whose background is aligned with your therapy goals to make this process easier. Schedule an initial consultation – When doubts linger about how online counseling works, you’ll probably have questions and concerns about the whole process. Scheduling an initial consultation with an online counselor is a wonderful way to get your questions answered and have a general understanding of how the process works. Some questions that come up during consultation include: What does an online session look and feel like? How long will you be receiving therapy online? How much does an online session cost? What are the cancellation policies and steps for rescheduling a session? An online counselor’s ability to assist you with your emotional turmoil can be determined after a quick discussion of the problems and symptoms you’re currently dealing with. As a result, you have more clarity and are prepared for your online counseling sessions. Scheduling and availability – Online counseling is a good choice if your schedule is unpredictable. To make it convenient for you both, you might wish to find out your online counselor’s availability and schedule. You can select a weekend session or probably after-work online sessions, depending on how busy your day is. For instance, some people may prioritise weekly sessions, while others may prefer to only attend a few sessions each month. Review counselor profile – Counselors and therapists do have an online presence. By reading their bio, you can get a sense of their values and ethics, along with how they intend to support you in therapy by being genuine, empathetic, and understanding. A strong therapeutic relationship can be built between you and your counselor by working cohesively to make you feel like you can trust them. Other things you may get to know by accessing their profile are if your online counselor is multilingual, if they work with certain demographics, their area of expertise, and whether they are trauma-informed. Credentials and qualifications – One needs to have a minimum Master of Arts or MSc in Applied Clinical or Counseling Psychology for them to qualify as your counselor or therapist. The course includes internships in hospitals, mental health clinics, schools, and NGOs, along with dissertation and research work for them to complete in order to receive their respective degrees. Privacy concern – Mental health professionals practise complete and utmost confidentiality with regard to your online sessions. A client’s participation in therapy as well as its contents are both confidential. Your identity as a client is also protected when an online counselor: Does not disclose your personal information through email or text Does not acknowledge you, the client, first outside of a therapeutic setting Does not divulge session information to a third party without your consent So, what you say stays in the session. But, there’s an exception to this. Counselors can break confidentiality in some circumstances when: There’s a threat to your life, or someone’s trying to physically harm you You’re a danger to someone’s well-being or intend to assault them, and You’re a threat to yourself or have thoughts of self-harm In situations like these, your online counselor will notify your emergency contact, who can help ensure you are safe and seek hospitalization if required. Session length – An online session is booked for an hour. However, a segment of time known as the ‘therapeutic hour’ can range from 40 to 55 minutes. That’s when your online session takes place. During extra time, the counselor takes notes, goes over key elements that were discussed, gives homework, and schedules an appointment for your next session. Depending on the type of mental health service you’re receiving, your online counselor will give you an idea of the length of your session. Be prepared to put in efforts: In order to manage your emotional

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Psychological Counseling – benefits, process and how it works

Mental health is essential for our overall well-being, and when we struggle emotionally, it can affect every aspect of our lives. Psychological counseling is an effective process that can help individuals improve their mental health, cope with life’s challenges, and achieve personal growth. This article provides an overview of psychological counseling, including its benefits, how it works, and what individuals can expect when seeking counseling services. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, facing difficult life transitions, or seeking personal growth, psychological counseling can help you navigate your challenges and build a more fulfilling and satisfying life. What is Psychological Counseling? Psychological counseling is an effective process that can be used by any individual to improve their mental health and well-being, by working collaboratively with a qualified counselor or a psychologist. The process involves building a strong therapeutic relationship where the person feels comfortable and safe sharing their thoughts and feelings.  To establish this therapeutic relationship, counselors are fully present with their clients using empathy and deep listening skills. Counseling is effective when clients feel safe, understood, respected, and accepted without judgment. Counselors use empirically supported interventions and specialized interpersonal skills to facilitate change and empower clients. These interventions can range from cognitive-behavioral therapy to mindfulness-based interventions and many more. The goal is to help clients develop the skills and insights they need to address their challenges.  Contact Us If you’re struggling emotionally and feel stuck, counseling can be valuable in helping you navigate through your difficulties. We are here to help you. Book an Appointment Benefits of Counseling and Therapy Psychological counseling can be a transformative experience for individuals seeking to improve their mental health and overall well-being. Whether someone is struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, facing difficult life transitions, or experiencing difficulties in relationships, counseling can create a safe and supportive environment to help them deepen their awareness and cope with their difficulties. The goal of counseling is to support individuals on their journey towards personal growth, healing, and a more fulfilling life, with the guidance and expertise of a trained counselor. Going through a difficult patch? We are here for you with online therapy & counseling services. Feel heard & supported by our compassionate and qualified psychologists and therapists. Related Read: Key Benefits Of Online Therapy The changes facilitated by psychological counseling include: Change in Perspective & New Insights: Psychological counseling can help individuals see things in a new way. By talking with a trained counselor, individuals can better understand their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This understanding can help individuals learn new ways to cope with challenges and gain new insights of themselves and their situation.   Enhanced capacity to tolerate and regulate feelings: Psychological Counseling can help individuals become better at recognizing, understanding, and managing their emotions.  Counseling can provide a safe space where individuals can talk about their emotions without being judged. This can help individuals become more aware of their feelings and learn to better understand why they feel the way they do. By gaining insight into their emotions, individuals can develop strategies to manage them in a more effective way. Counseling can help individuals feel more emotionally balanced, resilient, and improve their overall well-being.   New Actions and Behaviours: Counseling can help in understanding why you might be stuck in a specific pattern of behavior, and learn new, healthier ways to interact with yourself and the world around you. This can lead to a change in your responses and build better relationships with self and others. As you develop new behaviors, you may find that you experience greater freedom and fulfillment. You may also feel more confident and empowered to make healthier shifts. How Does the Psychological Counseling Process Work? A counselor’s primary goal is to provide a safe and supportive environment for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. They understand that seeking psychological counseling can be a difficult decision, and they strive to create an accepting atmosphere where clients feel comfortable sharing their concerns. During the initial session, the counselor asks clients questions about their background, history, and current issues. This information helps the counselor develop a personalized treatment plan that is tailored to the client’s specific needs and goals. Throughout the counseling process, the counselor works collaboratively with the client to help them gain insight into their issues and develop healthy ways of coping. In subsequent sessions, the counselor continues to explore the client’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in greater depth. They may use a variety of techniques and interventions to help clients better understand their experiences and develop new skills for managing them. The duration of psychological counseling varies depending on the client’s needs. Related Read: How To Choose The Right Online Counselor For Your Needs Online Counseling For Couples Dealing with Anger Mindfully Frequently Asked Questions How can Psychological counseling help me? Psychological Counseling encourages open and honest dialogue about issues that cause you distress. Through your relationship with your therapist, you’ll work to identify and understand how these stressors are impacting your life, and learn ways to cope with them. What should I expect from my first counseling session? Your first session with the therapist will be different from future visits. The initial visit is a period for you and your therapist to get to know each other and get an idea of how to proceed. Future sessions will be more therapeutic in nature. When is Psychological Counseling required? Psychological counseling is needed if you’re experiencing distress, struggling with a mental health condition, having difficulty coping with life changes or stressors, or struggling in relationships. About the Author This article was written by the Inner Space team; consulted & approved by professional therapists practicing online therapy and mindfulness Ask a Therapist ‘Ask A Therapist’ is a free platform to ask your questions related to mental health & emotional well-being to our team of qualified therapists. You can explore some previously answered questions here. Ask Now Related Blogs How Developmental Trauma

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