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Managing Emotions

Managing Emotions Using Support And Movement

Managing emotions mindfully Have you ever been told you were acting unreasonably or you blew things out of proportion? We are taught to express our happy feelings but at the same time we are told to suppress feelings of anger or sadness. From our childhood we are asked to stop crying and smile more, mostly because that is believed to be socially acceptable behavior. Naturally, managing emotions seems like a difficult task. How can we understand how to manage emotions if we have never even been allowed to express them?  To be able to manage our emotions we first need to let ourselves feel and embrace them. It is important to fully experience our emotions. Only when we experience them, can we begin to support them.  So how do we experience our emotions in a way that helps us to cope better?  Here are two effective ways for you to try and support yourself through overwhelming emotions and help you understand it. Make supportive movements You can try to support your emotions by letting your body express it through movements. These movements require you to really listen to your body.  What does your body want to do? Move it the way that feels intuitively right for you. Keep the movements gentle and slow giving yourself ample time and space to feel the effects of the movement. For example, anger is a high-energy emotion, allowing your arms and legs to move may help. Boredom tends to express itself as restlessness.  Repeatedly remind yourself to keep your movements slow and mindful. Do them to create support for the overwhelming feelings. Manage Intense Emotions. Incorporate Mindfulness into your Daily Life Understand and Practice it through our Free Mindfulness Videos Click here 2.Use touch as support Now, once you make these supportive movements, sit down in a relaxed manner. Remember, support means listening to the body and helping it to relax.  Now, take some deep breaths. Check where you can place a hand on your body to help it feel supported. Just to explore, keep your hand on your chest. Take a few seconds to sense how that feels.  See if that feels supportive. Do you feel like moving your hand higher or lower? Go ahead and do whatever feels right.  Similarly, you could explore by keeping a hand on your belly, on the top of your head or on your forehead.  Each time you support yourself through touch, stay that way to feel the support deeply for a few seconds. Only when you take in support deeply will your emotions respond and soften. Remind yourself that whatever you are feeling is your reality for now and in some time, the feeling will pass away. No emotion stays forever. It may return, but each time it does, you have the steps to work with it wisely and in a friendly way.  Working with your emotions like this when it arises and continuing to practice mindfulness regularly, will help you notice your experiences managing emotions will become less intense or difficult over time. Be patient and kind to your emotions, your experiences and yourself! ABOUT THE AUTHOR SHARE THE BLOG! READ SIMILAR BLOGS Dealing with Anger Mindfully ‘DEALING WITH ANGER’ Have you ever gotten angry at your… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 Recognising Our Feelings What Does it Mean to ‘Feel’? Our feelings are responsible… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 12, 2022 The Neuroscience Behind Mindfulness The Neuroscience Behind Mindfulness Mindfulness as a practice for well-being… Read More Inner Space TeamSeptember 11, 2021 EMOTIONAL HEALING: GETTING IN TOUCH WITH EMOTIONS IN THE BODY I feel so worried I’m extremely sad today I’m very… Read More Inner Space TeamMarch 7, 2015

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Manage Hypertension with Mindfulness

On World Hypertension day, here is our sharing on how stress leads to hypertension and what you can do on a daily basis to directly help the body become less stressed and manage hypertension with mindfulness. We are no strangers to hearing of several young people going through heart ailments and heart attacks due to stress. One in five young adults in India has high blood pressure, according to research presented at the 70th Annual Conference of the Cardiological Society of India (CSI) in 2018. We are often asked to ‘work on our stress’ in order to reduce or manage hypertension. Only, we are not sure how to do this and that is where this article can help. Two things are needed in order to manage bodily stress successfully: An understanding of how exactly stress impacts our body Learning to help our body de-stress Let’s look at both these points one by one. Learning about the  “Window of Tolerance” given by Dan Siegel will help us understand how prolonged stress causes and sustains hypertension. Understanding The Impact Of Stress In The Body The Optimal Arousal Zone This is how the body is, in a state of ‘rest and digest’, or, when it is not in a stressed state.  When we are in the Optimal Arousal Zone We are able to carry out day to day functioning without feeling extreme stress of any kind. Changes in the mood and emotions feel normal. Challenges feel manageable. Relaxing from time to time feels easy and natural. We are able to focus and be grounded. We are able to make decisions with proper reasoning. Practice Mindfulness Through Our Free Mindfulness Videos Click Here The Hyperarousal Zone: Leading To Hypertension Our busy lifestyle and the increase in everyday stress easily pushes us from the Optimal Arousal Zone to the Hyperarousal Zone. The hyperarousal zone involves increased alertness, a sense of urgency, reduced blood flow to the internal organs (like the digestive and reproductive systems) and more blood flow to the limbs. Basically, this is the body preparing to deal with the immediate stress by fighting it or escaping it.  The hyperarousal state is actually designed for us and is healthy if after a short while we return to the optimal zone. However, very often, many of us remain stuck in the hyperarousal zone for long periods of time. As a result, our body gets the message that functioning in the hyperarousal zone is a normal way to be. In our daily life, this can manifest as- Feeling alert and on guard Increase in palpitations and hyperactivity High blood pressure Low tolerance for changes Increase in aggression and reactivity Hypertension even for small triggers  Racing thoughts  Digestive difficulties An inability to rest and relax even when there is no immediate stressor.  The Hypoarousal Zone Sometimes, persistent stress can send the physiology into a state that’s the polar opposite of what we saw above. Contrary to the hyperarousal state, the hypoarousal state is a state of shut down and numbness. Functioning in hypoarousal zone can look like- Lack of energy Feeling of constant exhaustion Numbness Feeling depressed Low motivation Feeling frozen, dull or leaden Manage Hypertension With Mindfulness: Learning To Return To The Optimal Arousal Zone Mindfulness and grounding practices can greatly help in managing symptoms of stress.  While it’s easy for the mind and body to slip into stress mode, you can intervene by recognizing that the body has now become stressed and helping it return to baseline.  Here is a starting point to return to baseline when your mind and body are worked up, or, in the hyperarousal zone. Learn More: Online Meditation Course: 8 Weeks Mindfulness Meditation Recognize Consciously recognize when you are functioning in the hyperarousal zone. When you catch the body in the moment, you have the opportunity to intervene and change this cycle. Otherwise, it is simply continuing on autopilot, going on and on. Common cues of the hyperarousal state are – Stiffness in the head/neck Jaws are clenched Breath is shallow/constricted. Taking a deep breath feels like you’re having to push the air in. Stomach is sucked in and tight. Body feels uptight rather than relaxed Mind is racing Body and mind feel restless. Pause Take a pause for a few minutes when you recognize this. Pause whatever you are doing so that you can pay attention to yourself, for a bit. Regulate There are several ways to regulate the body and come back to a state of rest. Conscious Relaxation – check in with the body. Just hang in with the body, noticing it, for a few moments. You will recognize what areas are holding tension. As you breathe out, let any tense muscles relax. The same areas described under “a. Recognize” are the parts you might want to open up and relax. Grounding – Grounding is a practice that helps us feel centered and calm. Once you’ve checked in with the body and let it relax, spend some time noticing the connection between the seat of the body and the chair or ground. Notice the touch of the feet on the floor. Noticing this immediately grounds and settles the body. Don’t struggle hard to focus. Just notice whatever naturally comes into your awareness as you breathe. Here is a grounding practice guided by Sadia Saeed  to help you calm down and feel more centered. (This video is from a series of videos to help with Trauma and Overwhelm. However, the grounding practice is just as helpful for all stressed states. Skip to 4.17 to go directly to the practice)- Grounding & Creating Support – Exercise 1/5 | Trauma & Emotional Overwhelm Series- By Sadia Saeed – YouTube Mindful breathing – Mindful breathing simply means breathing with awareness. Taking even a few breaths while being fully aware of the inhalations and exhalations can greatly help to calm the body. In addition,  breathing into the diaphragm helps to open and destress the body further. Here is a link to

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